Girl told on me. How to react?

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I guess what I'm trying to figure out is, how could I avoided this?
Going no contact made her talk crazy? OK, maybe, then what?
Keep assuaging her?
Not tell her shyt?
Damn, I feel like she broke my trust. That's the sucky part.

Or she's saying I can't ignore her forever. And now my hamster is spinning. But still no contact ha!

 

[Billtx49]

I guess what I'm trying to figure out is, how could I avoided this?

You said you two were rocky yet she was close enough to the family unit to text your Mom.
Don’t ever take a girl home to meet Mom until you’ve had enough time together to be dead sure about her.
i.e., Don’t Ever involve parents in your dating life until engagement status is at least close.

 

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To me its no big deal if I'm going over to eat at my moms and a girl drives me there cuz I'm drinking.
She had my moms number cuz I used girls phone multiple times to call my mom.

 

[Billtx49]

She had my moms number cuz I used girls phone multiple times to call my mom.

Your first mistake. Get your own phone if you don’t have one and use it exclusively…

 

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Mine was being fixed at the time. But thats not an issue if I had kept frame, she wouldn't have thought to go there right?
Or am I naive to believe that my privacy is paramount for my happiness and the happiness of our relationship.

 

[Billtx49]

Or am I naive to believe that my privacy is paramount for my happiness and the happiness of our relationship.

Privacy is an important issue for everyone, but it’s only as important as you think it is. Protect yours by not making mistakes and not bitching about a girl using a phone number you gave her.

 

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Not really bytching...didnt give her the number really. She got it off the call history and must have saved it.
Just trying to figure out how someone ends up making the decision she made.