"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl told me not to be mean/jerk

theapprentice

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I was on the phone with this girl, and we are going to the movies tomorrow. She has called me mean maybe 20 times and a jerk 10 times. But I can tell she likes it bcuz she said it herself. "well I like the jerk you, girls fall for the jerk all the time"

But she told me "hey you better not be mean to me tomorrow. She said that if I said three mean things that she would get up and move her seat in the movie chair. But she was serious on me not being mean to her. I could hear it in her tone. She said "I'm being serious dont be mean"

Could this be a test?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Brian Griffin

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Who gives a Sh1t if it's a test?

I'm so sick of hearing "is this a test, or this, what about that? test?

And you don't have to be mean to get her attracted to you.

What are you a noob?
 

cyp6

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^^^ actually brian the only nobb here is you!!!!!!!

now, to answer you question bro. mabey dont lay one the jerk too much tomarow.. but still be a jerk.. know what im saying.. dont pick on her all the time... "jerk" is your pet name by this girl i think.. My ex used to call me "dork" or "looser" before she became my gf,
 

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@ theapprentice,

Just be yourself,do what you would like.If you feel like teasing,have at it. Don't show her some phony side of you.
 

ValleyDJing

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When she tells you to quit being a jerk, tell her to quit playing hard to get! coochie time!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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