Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl told me not to be mean/jerk

theapprentice

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I was on the phone with this girl, and we are going to the movies tomorrow. She has called me mean maybe 20 times and a jerk 10 times. But I can tell she likes it bcuz she said it herself. "well I like the jerk you, girls fall for the jerk all the time"

But she told me "hey you better not be mean to me tomorrow. She said that if I said three mean things that she would get up and move her seat in the movie chair. But she was serious on me not being mean to her. I could hear it in her tone. She said "I'm being serious dont be mean"

Could this be a test?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Brian Griffin

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Who gives a Sh1t if it's a test?

I'm so sick of hearing "is this a test, or this, what about that? test?

And you don't have to be mean to get her attracted to you.

What are you a noob?
 

cyp6

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^^^ actually brian the only nobb here is you!!!!!!!

now, to answer you question bro. mabey dont lay one the jerk too much tomarow.. but still be a jerk.. know what im saying.. dont pick on her all the time... "jerk" is your pet name by this girl i think.. My ex used to call me "dork" or "looser" before she became my gf,
 

blinkwatt

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@ theapprentice,

Just be yourself,do what you would like.If you feel like teasing,have at it. Don't show her some phony side of you.
 

ValleyDJing

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When she tells you to quit being a jerk, tell her to quit playing hard to get! coochie time!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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