"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl thinks we went "too far" on our first date

Matt Rogers

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Well Id pretty much given up and detached myself emotionally. So on Monday she texts me again asking me to call her that evening. I ignore it. A few hours later she rings me and I tell her I'm kinda busy and can't talk right now and hang up. Rather than saying it like I was pissed with her I somehow managed to just sound cold and uncaring.

The next day she says do i want to hang out on Wednesday. I said I had football but we could meet tonight or Thursday. She said tonight is not good and Thursday im busy so i guess some other time. By this time I was fed up and had nothing to lose so I say to her "Let's meet tonight I know you are not doing anything". She said bla bla let me think about it. I say "I'll call in an hour" she replies "OK". I call and predictably it is "Oh im tired and it is late and it would take me too long to get ready". I said "Come on, you look fine the way you are, drink some coffee, and I'll be in your neigborhood anyway and it is barely 7.00".

I thought this would backfire but she said "this is crazy, im not ready, but somehow I know this is my last chance so ill see you in an hour".

We meet, the chemistry is still there, we kiss, she hints she wants to sleep with me, I say we are both adults and can live with any decisions we make and besides I want her but ultimately she has the final say. She says lets go to the park. We lie in the park and it gets cold and we are kissing and she says "I'm cold let's go back to mine". I say "if i go back to yours are you going to freak out the next day". She says "Umm I don't know" and I said "Well I guess we'll find out soon". We go back to hers, we screw and weirdely her hold over me has broken but I think we can have some fun together in the future.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CGE333

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I may be way out of line here, but this woman sounds like she has a lot of issues. I would be concerned that she could cry rape the next day or two days later....

I am telling you something has happened to this girl in the past..
 
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