"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pyros

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Hi.

So, what do you think about a girl you're kind of dating that tells you about all these other guys that hit on her or try to pick her up?

I say this because there is this girl that every time we meet , she has to talk about this stuff and it's kind of annoying, for example she goes:

- there is this guy at work that offered to drive me home, but I declined.
- my hiphop teacher asked me out and is always sending me songs via whatsapp
- there is this dude from my hiphop class that I went on a date with but I did not like him and he keeps asking me out
- there was this guy the other day in a club that wanted a kiss just because can you believe it?

I normally tease her and basically tell her I find this guys very kind (in a funy tone), and that she should adopt some of them, and she laughs.

But...why tell me this every damn time? I think next ime Im gonna tell her that I dont give a **** about that and Im not interested in hearing it unless she wants me to tell her about all the chicks that chat me up...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sylvester the cat

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My ex does this all the time. She's very insecure. Cant speak for yours though.
 

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pyros said:
Hi.

So, what do you think about a girl you're kind of dating that tells you about all these other guys that hit on her or try to pick her up?

I say this because there is this girl that every time we meet , she has to talk about this stuff and it's kind of annoying, for example she goes:

- there is this guy at work that offered to drive me home, but I declined.
- my hiphop teacher asked me out and is always sending me songs via whatsapp
- there is this dude from my hiphop class that I went on a date with but I did not like him and he keeps asking me out
- there was this guy the other day in a club that wanted a kiss just because can you believe it?

I normally tease her and basically tell her I find this guys very kind (in a funy tone), and that she should adopt some of them, and she laughs.

But...why tell me this every damn time? I think next ime Im gonna tell her that I dont give a **** about that and Im not interested in hearing it unless she wants me to tell her about all the chicks that chat me up...
Its probably to get a reaction out of you - Play it cool and act as if it doesnt bother you - My ex used to do this at the start, i would just laugh it off and make a joke, it soon stopped :)
 

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pyros said:
Hi.

So, what do you think about a girl you're kind of dating that tells you about all these other guys that hit on her or try to pick her up?
I think its pretty normal female behavior. Trying to seek your approval and make you jealous.
I say this because there is this girl that every time we meet , she has to talk about this stuff and it's kind of annoying, for example she goes:

- there is this guy at work that offered to drive me home, but I declined.
- my hiphop teacher asked me out and is always sending me songs via whatsapp
- there is this dude from my hiphop class that I went on a date with but I did not like him and he keeps asking me out
- there was this guy the other day in a club that wanted a kiss just because can you believe it?

I normally tease her and basically tell her I find this guys very kind (in a funy tone), and that she should adopt some of them, and she laughs.
Good response. Wash, rinse, repeat.
But...why tell me this every damn time? I think next ime Im gonna tell her that I dont give a **** about that and Im not interested in hearing it unless she wants me to tell her about all the chicks that chat me up...
That be a mistake.

Keep playing it as you are, and laugh to yourself every time she does it.....just shows you have the upper hand.
 
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