"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl that liked me is ignoring me now

iCatch

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long story short, you know those IOI lists and the things you read when you google "how to tell if a girl likes you" (you know you've all done it)

well this girl showed like 90% of those things and i was too much of a ***** to act on it

now she's ignoring me and i really want to get with her. how should i go about this? what should i say? is it possible that she still likes me but got upset that i didn't make a move?

HELP!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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apec

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get her phone number and start talking to her, or ask her to a dance or something

You may have waited too long to go for her, and her interest may be gone. She may still like you, but the only way to find out is to go for it
 

Spade

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hehe dude that might be it but ive been in a similar situation...this usually happens wen she actually finds out u like her, so basically at this point uve got the lower value...so this is wat u do...starting acting alpha be unreactive n dnt giv a **** wat she says. In some way, maybe through friends or somethin, make her findout ur not into her anymore. Then u start flirting with other girls like teaseing them in a fun fashion n all that shyt. Then, she'd proabbly be more into n u'd get more ioi's so itll be easier for u to number close.
 
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