"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl that just broke off engagement

Cougar10033

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I have a question i just recently met a tall brunette around an 8-8.5. We are heading out on Thursday however i have just found out that she was dating some guy for 5 years prior and within the last 2 months they broke off their engagement. Will C and F still work on a girl like this ? Also do you guys think i should be more AFC ish for a girl like this ? Not that being AFC ish is a good thing but if i come off as an indifferent Alpha jerk i believe she will be spooked ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thederekeffect1

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"Will C&F still work on a girl like this?"
- Yes.

"Should I be more AFCish?"
- Should I pimp-smack you?
- Answer: No.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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Whatever you do make sure you convey you are not looking for a commitment.

My guess is you're the rebound guy, but whatever the case is the fastest way to turn off a girl like that is to start acting like you want a 5 year relationship with her.
 
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