"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl that just broke off engagement

Cougar10033

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I have a question i just recently met a tall brunette around an 8-8.5. We are heading out on Thursday however i have just found out that she was dating some guy for 5 years prior and within the last 2 months they broke off their engagement. Will C and F still work on a girl like this ? Also do you guys think i should be more AFC ish for a girl like this ? Not that being AFC ish is a good thing but if i come off as an indifferent Alpha jerk i believe she will be spooked ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thederekeffect1

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"Will C&F still work on a girl like this?"
- Yes.

"Should I be more AFCish?"
- Should I pimp-smack you?
- Answer: No.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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Whatever you do make sure you convey you are not looking for a commitment.

My guess is you're the rebound guy, but whatever the case is the fastest way to turn off a girl like that is to start acting like you want a 5 year relationship with her.
 
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