“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nitzor

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So basically this girl asked me for my number, I assume she's interested or she wouldn't have asked me for my number.

I text her a day later just to chat followed by we should hang out. We had a good chat and both were writing a lot of stuff. Then finally at some point She took awhile to reply and finally did later in the night when I passed out. She said she was out with her friends and sorry for getting back to you so late. She also said she is not sure about this week, but how about next week.

So then today (the next day) I woke up and went on with my day. I get home later in the evening after work and texted her saying sorry for getting back so late, that I had passed out and had a crazy busy day. I asked if I could call her later tonight. She took awhile to reply and finally she did saying shes busy studying for an exam. Maybe I can call her later and that shes sorry and that shes not trying to be rude.

So I just wished her good luck on her exam and said its cool, since I know what it is like when you have exams. Funny part is I have an exam tmrw.. yet I was still willing to talk to her for a bit today. I wanted to talk to setup a time to meetup next week.

anyway she said thanks so much for the good luck. So now the question is do I just let her call me back in a week or wait for her to get back to me at some point? Or do I wait a week and then try again?

I mean I kinda feel like if shes busy, then it's only fair she is the one to reach out to me. I kinda tried on my end. I guess I don't know if she is legitly busy with an exam or if it's an excuse. I know last day she did say she has an exam coming up soon and some school work. So who knows....
 

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Don't ask her for permission to call. It's beta. She gave you her number so u have the right to call. Sounds like you didn't plan your date asking. Saying "we should hang out" is a redundant comment. You need to find out when her test is over, figure out when she's free and properly ask, on the phone. Keep texting to a minimum.

Girls aren't busy for guys they like, if they truely are they will atleast counter offer. Really you need to ask her specifically when she's free and if she's not move on. Exams are a real reason people don't go out, but then she went out the other day. You could call today and set something up, if she says after exams, find out when her last one is and call her again closer to that time.
 

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Call her and ask her out. Don't ask permission. Just do it. If she says no then she is not interested. Since she might be busy for exams, say "lets go out for drinks. What days are you free this week?". If she doesn't offer any days then I would stop calling and texting and if she contacts you then she's interested.
 

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Nitzor said:
So basically this girl asked me for my number, I assume she's interested or she wouldn't have asked me for my number.

I text her a day later just to chat followed by we should hang out. We had a good chat and both were writing a lot of stuff. Then finally at some point She took awhile to reply and finally did later in the night when I passed out. She said she was out with her friends and sorry for getting back to you so late. She also said she is not sure about this week, but how about next week.

So then today (the next day) I woke up and went on with my day. I get home later in the evening after work and texted her saying sorry for getting back so late, that I had passed out and had a crazy busy day. I asked if I could call her later tonight. She took awhile to reply and finally she did saying shes busy studying for an exam. Maybe I can call her later and that shes sorry and that shes not trying to be rude.

So I just wished her good luck on her exam and said its cool, since I know what it is like when you have exams. Funny part is I have an exam tmrw.. yet I was still willing to talk to her for a bit today. I wanted to talk to setup a time to meetup next week.

anyway she said thanks so much for the good luck. So now the question is do I just let her call me back in a week or wait for her to get back to me at some point? Or do I wait a week and then try again?

I mean I kinda feel like if shes busy, then it's only fair she is the one to reach out to me. I kinda tried on my end. I guess I don't know if she is legitly busy with an exam or if it's an excuse. I know last day she did say she has an exam coming up soon and some school work. So who knows....
you are the backup guy, personally, I wouldnt even bother wasting another text on this one
 
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