This girl invited me to her house... 2nd time meeting .. as we went up the stairs.. she gave me a cold look and said "we're not having sex and no kissing" I basically just smirked...she sounded very serious and tell me "I can leave" I almost did but I decided to stay to see how this was going to end. When we got to the house, I hear this speech how all guys want "one thing" and I'm one of them who just want "one thing". I just gave her a blank stare. I could have made a move with her but I didn't because 1. I'm not really attracted to her and it got worse the more I hang out with her and 2. Her attitude sucks. I know it's a sh*t test but there was no need to label me and try to kick me out before I can even get in lol.. smh... I'm cutting ties with this one.
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Bible_Belt
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I had a sales job once going door-to-door selling to businesses. My boss was damn good at what he did; his father was retired from the same company and taught him everything he knew. We once approached a business with a big "no soliciting" sign on the front door. I pointed out the sign and asked him if we should not go in.
He replied, "Are you kidding? Why do you think that they had to put that sign up? It's because they have had trouble saying 'no' to salesmen. I seek out people like that; I don't avoid them."
That was some wisdom that will stick with me for the rest of my life. I have been told the same thing as you by women I ended up fvcking the same night. Why do you think she said "no kissing?" What she meant was "when a guy kisses me, I lose control of myself and always end up having sex with him. Afterward, I feel cheap, because I was so easy."
Now, if she told you that, would you still want to cut her loose? I doubt it, which is why you can never accept a woman's words at face value. They don't say what they really mean.
He replied, "Are you kidding? Why do you think that they had to put that sign up? It's because they have had trouble saying 'no' to salesmen. I seek out people like that; I don't avoid them."
That was some wisdom that will stick with me for the rest of my life. I have been told the same thing as you by women I ended up fvcking the same night. Why do you think she said "no kissing?" What she meant was "when a guy kisses me, I lose control of myself and always end up having sex with him. Afterward, I feel cheap, because I was so easy."
Now, if she told you that, would you still want to cut her loose? I doubt it, which is why you can never accept a woman's words at face value. They don't say what they really mean.
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I could have made a move with her but I didn't because 1. I'm not really attracted to her and it got worse the more I hang out with her and 2. Her attitude sucks.
smh... I'm cutting ties with this one.
Cutting ties with a girl you dont find attractive? Sounds like to me you didnt make a move because she shook your frame by calling you out and even though you recognized the sh1t test...you failed when you didnt escalate and now your trying to rationalize it. Just escalate next time...
smh... I'm cutting ties with this one.
Cutting ties with a girl you dont find attractive? Sounds like to me you didnt make a move because she shook your frame by calling you out and even though you recognized the sh1t test...you failed when you didnt escalate and now your trying to rationalize it. Just escalate next time...
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Boths of these guys are spot on. Bible Belt....great analogy.
Whenever a woman makes a bold statement.....safe to say you could just assume the opposite.
Whenever a woman makes a bold statement.....safe to say you could just assume the opposite.
devilkingx2
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she sounds like a *****, but you totally could've hit that
isn't being jaded and whining about how all guys are the same and only want to hit it and quit it a sign that she's been hit and quit frequently?
with that attitude, we can see why.
isn't being jaded and whining about how all guys are the same and only want to hit it and quit it a sign that she's been hit and quit frequently?
with that attitude, we can see why.
OP...this is the most common sh&t test there is...you are now stamped a nice guy in her mind..congratulations...you say you don't find her attractive but yet you stayed at her place..i call BS. You chickened out big time.
When they say this what you do is show them it doesn't phase you one way or the other...you should have said, i don't know why you are worried about me kissing you, i don't really even know you that well right now, i am pretty picky about such things...
Then after about 40 mins of good convo and slight kino make your move and you would be knee deep inside her shortly afterwards...and she would be saying i thought you said you didn't know me well enough while jamming her tongue down your throat.
I used to sell life insurance and what Bible Belt says is very true....always take no as yes in the dating world and sales. If she really wasn't interested she wouldn't have invited you to her house..
Here is what her words really mean't..
I think i like you or there is a strong possibility of us being together, but i am scared that you will just have sex with me and then run away leaving me hanging, but at the same time i get wet about thinking of the possibility of kissing you and having sex....but i can't control myself once i9 start kissing a guy....
But the irony is when you follow what she says, subconsciously she will deem you to be a boring nice guy and lose attraction...make no mistake about it, despite her words, she is really attracted to the guy who will bang her and leave her because it is what she possibly can't have and he is more dangerous therefore more exciting than a safe acting guy such as yourself....
When they say this what you do is show them it doesn't phase you one way or the other...you should have said, i don't know why you are worried about me kissing you, i don't really even know you that well right now, i am pretty picky about such things...
Then after about 40 mins of good convo and slight kino make your move and you would be knee deep inside her shortly afterwards...and she would be saying i thought you said you didn't know me well enough while jamming her tongue down your throat.
I used to sell life insurance and what Bible Belt says is very true....always take no as yes in the dating world and sales. If she really wasn't interested she wouldn't have invited you to her house..
Here is what her words really mean't..
I think i like you or there is a strong possibility of us being together, but i am scared that you will just have sex with me and then run away leaving me hanging, but at the same time i get wet about thinking of the possibility of kissing you and having sex....but i can't control myself once i9 start kissing a guy....
But the irony is when you follow what she says, subconsciously she will deem you to be a boring nice guy and lose attraction...make no mistake about it, despite her words, she is really attracted to the guy who will bang her and leave her because it is what she possibly can't have and he is more dangerous therefore more exciting than a safe acting guy such as yourself....