Girl tells me i'm cute but she doesnt like the fact that i'm bald

[joe henny]

Also if you're a white guy, and want to rock the bald look, make sure you've got some muscle on you, else you look like a cancer patient

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

A cancer patient.. I never thought of that one lol

 

[Ease]

People have told me that there is a guy called Tyler Durden that is good with women.

If that ugly asshead can pull, then anyone can.

Its on your game bro, you might have to switch it up adjust and adapt, but its all on your game. Some guys have disabilities, some guys have no money, some guys have problems talking, some guys have no hair. Its all the same, it doesn't stop anyone.

 

[vatoloco]

Dude, we already told you.

I'll repeat it again for the benefit of other readers: "Once you get past your hang up, you will be successful with girls."

 

[Warrior74]

Call it a neg hit, or a **** test or whatever. The point is, you failed. You let what some woman say get to you. She said you were cute. That's all you need to listen to. I've had girls say, you're cute but your short, and you know what? I usually respond with "yup, the better to be closer to you my dear" in my best big bad wolf voice, and grab them. It's a fvcking neg designed to test your self confidence. Weak men will get upset and whine about it and not get laid. Nobody is perfect, neither is she. Tell us her faults. Everyone has faults. Heidi Klum probably stinks up a bathroom like no tomrrow and might have ugly feet or ass pimples, who knows. It's the person who worries about their shortcomings, who is losing the game.

 

[BananaSmile]

zzz at this guy
words dont matter blah blah blah
didnt u learn ********? shes complimenting you but then
(maybe she felt it would be too stron to say ur cute so she used the bald guy thing)
ahha man just buy a hat, thats what most bald guys do flaunt it or use a hat

 

[Fuglydude]

Dude I think that chic is fulla shiiite. I stripped for 3.5 years. I've done HUNDREDS of shows all over Canada, and have entertained thousands of females in my time. I've made tens of thousands of dollars and financed a university degree basically through my looks/body. Guess what? I was shaved the enter time. I'm naturally a pretty hairy dude, but I've been shaving my head (clippers and razor) for years now. I did through out my whole stripping career, and most women loved it... some of them more than others. I've had a request from a pretty cute girl once to lick whip cream off my head.. hahaha... chics are hilarious!

There's something hyper-masculine about the bald/shaved look. In addition its really really low maintenance. The only down side I can think of is that if you live in a cold climate which I do, then you can lose a lot of heat through the head.

I think you gotta be pretty jacked to pull off the bald look in general though, no matter if you're white, black, brown, whatever... In my experience highly feminine hot women love hypermasculine guys. My fiance LOVES bald... and she's a model/figure competitor ... shows you being bald aint' all that bad! She goes gaga over Randy Couture and he's pushing 50!!! She also loves GSP, the Rock, and other jacked up big bald guys.

http://s102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/

Personally, I'd next that chic though man... I'm a lazy guy, and I've always gone for women that are naturally attracted to me. It saves a lot of time/troubles, and it makes life a lot easier! If you're an attractive guy then you'll have a large proportion of females attracted to you, and there's gotta be a few in that population that you wanna screw.

just my 2 cents.

 

[Jeffst1980]

She is not the only who told me that i'm cute but somehow my baldness turns them off. They just can't accept the fact that i dont have hair on my head (i use guard #1 all over) even though i have good conversation and dont look horrible to them.

She told me that most women don't like bald men even though they are attractive and that if i didnt use a hat or do hair implants (which are way too expensive) my chances with the opposite sex are very slim to none.

Is she just being shallow or is the lack of hair really that important? I, like many men in my position just want to know the real truth, are we bald men fighting an already lost battle?

It should be obvious that the "girl" in this dialogue is a figment of the OP's insecurities. No girl actually said this, because it isn't true. If it was, the baldness gene would've died out many generations ago.

This is nothing more than the dialogue that insecure men obsessed with a minor imperfection have with themselves- because it is easy to blame failure on a superficial detail, rather than to take the time to cultivate an attractive personality.

Newbies to the forum: Ignore posts like this.

 

[HolyG]

Dude I think that chic is fulla shiiite. I stripped for 3.5 years. I've done HUNDREDS of shows all over Canada, and have entertained thousands of females in my time. I've made tens of thousands of dollars and financed a university degree basically through my looks/body.

Holy **** man, 2 things


1) NO homo but you are JACKEDDD, what's your workout routine for the adonis belt / v-cut below your abs, I want to work on that ****


2) You should make a thread talking about your experiences lol

 

[Tovansky]

dud, what are you talking about. Look at vin diesel or jason statham! that might be hollywood actors, but I do believe that if you clean shave your hair as a man, you would be fine with girls.

 

[NeedToImprove]

It should be obvious that the "girl" in this dialogue is a figment of the OP's insecurities. No girl actually said this, because it isn't true. If it was, the baldness gene would've died out many generations ago.

This is nothing more than the dialogue that insecure men obsessed with a minor imperfection have with themselves- because it is easy to blame failure on a superficial detail, rather than to take the time to cultivate an attractive personality.

Newbies to the forum: Ignore posts like this.

no, this is not an imagination conversation, this was a real conversation i had with a girl i met through facebook. So you are saying by that that i'm a liar and that there are no shallow women? that they can't say this to a man? guess what mr know it all she IS real and she said that through conversation because she had only seen me on photos in facebook, understood?

Yes i might portray insecurity which im trying to get rid of, but never in the post i said i wasn't insecure. Maybe she sensed i was insecure and used the bald thing against me,maybe a test i dont know.

But you can't come in here and say this guy is a liar, dont listen to him newbies, women dont say stuff like this because you are being an *******.

At least i get rejected but go on dates, i had 2 fugly fat girls i rejected because i wasnt attracted to them some weeks ago (unfortunately that's what i seem to attract now) but that's just the way it is. i would advise you Jeffst1980 to stop being so harsh on other users, to move that fat ass of yours and start doing field dating instead of criticizing

 

[women haze]

Bull ****!!....My pimply faced ass ain't gettin ****.

Girls care about how you look period!! Just as much as we care about how they look. We settle for less because we can't GET more....

 

[slaog]

She is not the only who told me that i'm cute but somehow my baldness turns them off. They just can't accept the fact that i dont have hair on my head (i use guard #1 all over) even though i have good conversation and dont look horrible to them.

Actually what turned them off is you're an AFC who is very insecure about himself. The baldness was the excuse they use and as somebody already mentioned, your reaction confirmed your AFCness.

 

[ENIGMA16]

Bull ****!!....My pimply faced ass ain't gettin ****.

Girls care about how you look period!! Just as much as we care about how they look. We settle for less because we can't GET more....

That's because pimples are gross. They're little pus filled pockets all over your face. Nobody wants to touch/kiss that.

Going bald isn't gross. You're just losing hair, nothing gross about it. Might not be as attractive if you try to wear it like an idiot but anyone can make baldness look decent.

Also, you can get rid of pimples and acne. You can't get rid of baldness (aside from surgery, which doesn't count).

This guy has a notable pattern of being a whiny chump on this board and starting threads constantly whining about how he's going bald and "woe is me what am I gonna do I'm hideous".

Seriously, NeedToImprove, if it bothers you that much then just say fuck it and shave it all off! Problem solved!

 

[SharinganUser]

Something a girl said upset you, that's real manly. Women have told me I am too fat, then I ****ed them. Stop being an insecure little *****.

 

[Fuglydude]

Holy **** man, 2 things


1) NO homo but you are JACKEDDD, what's your workout routine for the adonis belt / v-cut below your abs, I want to work on that ****


2) You should make a thread talking about your experiences lol

haha thanx man, and don't worry, I dont look like that anymore haha...

Doing my first bodybuilding show next year, so I'm currently bulking up. I'm done dancing... I figure 3.5 years was long enough. Have a "real" job now anyways.

I'm about 20 lbs heavier than in those pics and probably carrying 4-5% more bodyfat (5'8" - 188 at 12.3% when I last checked). I was on a small amount of anabolics for those pics... just enough to help me stay lean. Also, its all about diet... working out is actually a pretty small part of the whole equation. During my stripping years my diet much consisted of protein (meat/MRP/shakes) and fruit w/ some veges thrown in. Very small amounts of dairy and carbs. Worked out heavy w/ little or no cardio... Shows and sex made up all the cardio that I needed!

If you want the V-cut focus on really cleaning up your diet, and eating lotsa protein and natural source carbs. Really focus on training your lower abs and do a fair bit of high intensity interval cardio.

As for your second point... ah, there's been so many stories... issue is, I was high for most of em so I forgot lots of the funny ones. In the end though, as an "independent contractor" as I was for most of my career, I gave people a great product at a good price... so you had to be professional. Me and a lot of the guys lament that we didn't keep a written account of all the funny shiite that's happened over the years.

This board is too concerned about "game" etc, and not enough about improving one's self. Do you honestly think you need all those crazy techniques when you're jacked and have a fun personality? Minimal game and some social/sexual awareness will get you pretty much any girl you want... sometimes more than one at a time. I tried to start threads about "issues" that I had during my early years as a dancer... but none one really took em seriously as you can see here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=121467

I personally think the main DJ discussion forum is a complete joke... I'll post once in a while if something catches my eye, but I stick to the mature man and health and fitness forum.

Apologize to the original poster for thread hi-jack...