"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl tells me i'm cute but she doesnt like the fact that i'm bald

NeedToImprove

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She is not the only who told me that i'm cute but somehow my baldness turns them off. They just can't accept the fact that i dont have hair on my head (i use guard #1 all over) even though i have good conversation and dont look horrible to them.

She told me that most women don't like bald men even though they are attractive and that if i didnt use a hat or do hair implants (which are way too expensive) my chances with the opposite sex are very slim to none.

Is she just being shallow or is the lack of hair really that important? I, like many men in my position just want to know the real truth, are we bald men fighting an already lost battle?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NeedToImprove

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don't know if the problem lies within portuguese / latin women,but here they are shallow as hell.what do they want? all of us to be greek gods?
 

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women across the world are banging overweight, ugly, fat, acne-faced, pimply guys all over the damn place. If your game is tight, you'll pull that ass at the end of the night.


Why are you sitting there, listening to her telling you what she wants and doesn't want?

Why aren't you telling her....what you want.

QUALIFY AND DISQUALIFY HER.
Negs are useful as well.


Roosh V said it best:

"If every girl liked the type of guys seen in GQ and Details, the guys you are trying to emulate, I would never get laid."
 

HolyG

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Also if you're a white guy, and want to rock the bald look, make sure you've got some muscle on you, else you look like a cancer patient
 

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If a girl like her is shallow and doesn't like a certain feature of you, shes obviously not good for you. Next her and next time don't let anyone define how your success will be its all in your control.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If baldness has that much of a impact on her now then yes she is being very shallow. I would neg her then next her and make some reference to Jason Statham and how his baldness hurt his career in being a astronaut so bad, that he had to take up acting lessons. Then I would wink, smile and walk away.
 

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Post your hair pics in this thread again so everyone can see what you're talking about.
 

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Dude, that chick does not know what she is talking about. Baldness has a lot to do with extra testosterone. Women love manly men not men so feminine that they are starting to grow tits. Think of all the famous actors who are balding and are total bad asses.

Just a few that come to mind:

1. Sean Connery
2. Jason Statham
3. Bruce Willis
4. Jude Law (ok, he doesn't fit the traditional stereotype of a badass, but he does have a very rakish personality. Plus he banged Sienna Miller bonus points for that.)
 

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Slut: You are cute, but you are bald.

DJ: Oh. We are pointing out each others imperfections? You would be a lot better looking if you got a nose job and a boob job.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CantTouchMyStyle said:
Slut: You are cute, but you are bald.

DJ: Oh. We are pointing out each others imperfections? You would be a lot better looking if you got a nose job and a boob job.
:up:
I've used that first sentence before to great effect.

Edit - The dj line, not the slut line.
 

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I always say something like well mami not all of us san be gorgeous like you....I mean you have the perfect body, god even blessed you with extra stuff, usher towards her rolls or saddle bags ect. Works great in public.
 

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CantTouchMyStyle said:
edit:

officially buzzed and read that comment wrong

carry on
LOL, at times like these I always wish I could see the initial pre-edited, buzz-induced comment. Must have been a good one. Of course you now know I was agreeing with you.

Carrying on...
 

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there's a bald guy at work, he's in shape and such, quite a few women find him attractive, so don't let one woman screw with your mind like that. If she told you the lord said you're a homo because you're bald, would you believe her as well? think about it... she's not "most women" nor can she speak for them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Since when the hell did you stop and started listening to women and the nonsensical sh*t they spout related to the dating game? What's next, you gonna listen to the girl that tells you that girls love a man that buys them flowers, chocolate and waits for them to put until they're married?

Never ever listen to the bullcrap they tell you, it's all lies. Girls dig that bald shiney ball of yours so much that they want to polish it the f*ck up and ride you like you a horse while checking themselves out in it. I know this bald dude, and trust me, he's a player, and he lays more girls than probably half the AFCs on this board combined does in half a year.
 

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how is #1 bald? i get 1.5 all over and no one calls me bald. that ***** is just dumb.
 

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I've been thinning for ages and ages and though there are methods for hiding it (couvre, toppik and the right kinda cut) I got sick of all the B.S. and decided to just go ahead and shave it clean off. I'm talking straight razor bald.

And guess what?

The woman love it. I was shocked.

Some women prefer full heads of hair, but 99% of them don't care. If you're cool and they think you're good looking, then hair or no hair is barely a deal breaker.

If it is, then NEXT!
 

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Some women prefer full heads of hair, but 99% of them don't care. If you're cool and they think you're good looking, then hair or no hair is barely a deal breaker.

If it is, then NEXT![/QUOTE]

^^^
 

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This is your fourth topic on being bald.
Either get a hairpiece, shave it off completely, or get over it.

You are nothing more than a male version of an attention ***** looking to post up pics of yourself AGAIN in order to gain some type of misguided approval from other forum posters.

It gets old.

And I can tell already why you have problem with women. It's not your baldness, it's your raging insecurity.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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