"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl Tells Me: "I Like D1ck!"

mix_master

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The night before the "we were fvcking each other" girl:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168680

...there was another girl who also dropped an F close invitation in my lap. Here it is:

Three girls outside

I hit up a bar and I'm lingering outside. My wing has opened a set with three girls chatting outside. One is married, the other is a single brunette, the third a petite blonde). I talk to the three of them after I get introduced. They are fun and frisky.

One girl (the very cute blonde) deliberately gets my name wrong while talking to me.
her: "your name is d1ck!" right? It's "d1ck!" "I like d1ck!" she announced to her girlfriends. This girl is leaning in and staring into my eyes with a big smile.
her girlfriends start laughing like crazy.

I tell her that she is a cool girl.
At this point, some very tall chick butts in: "they are NOT girls. We are WOMEN!"
I'm like whatever.

However, my friend wants to bail. The tall girl's making him feel uncomfortable. I urge him to stay, saying that he's got to learn to deal with such situations. Anyway, I decide to go with my friend. Promising set lost.

Anyway the point is: if the girl tells you she likes d1ck, you should give her d1ck. And if she tells me she likes to f*ck, well then maybe I should...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hansol

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You got an "f-close invitation" and didn't pursue it... um... what am I missing here?
 

drak_ool

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Troll alert here?

so yesterday you were invited to fvck a girl, today a girl tells you she likes d1ck and... you didn't even get a #?

i don't buy it
 

mix_master

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I have no excuses. My friend wanted to bail, and instead of staying with the action, well...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Joe Stud

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I know a fine sexy girl that is the same way. She's almost like a "man, in a hb10' body". I love it. i love her! She says what's on her mind. Thats one in a million.
 
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