"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl Tells Me: "I Like D1ck!"

mix_master

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The night before the "we were fvcking each other" girl:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168680

...there was another girl who also dropped an F close invitation in my lap. Here it is:

Three girls outside

I hit up a bar and I'm lingering outside. My wing has opened a set with three girls chatting outside. One is married, the other is a single brunette, the third a petite blonde). I talk to the three of them after I get introduced. They are fun and frisky.

One girl (the very cute blonde) deliberately gets my name wrong while talking to me.
her: "your name is d1ck!" right? It's "d1ck!" "I like d1ck!" she announced to her girlfriends. This girl is leaning in and staring into my eyes with a big smile.
her girlfriends start laughing like crazy.

I tell her that she is a cool girl.
At this point, some very tall chick butts in: "they are NOT girls. We are WOMEN!"
I'm like whatever.

However, my friend wants to bail. The tall girl's making him feel uncomfortable. I urge him to stay, saying that he's got to learn to deal with such situations. Anyway, I decide to go with my friend. Promising set lost.

Anyway the point is: if the girl tells you she likes d1ck, you should give her d1ck. And if she tells me she likes to f*ck, well then maybe I should...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hansol

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You got an "f-close invitation" and didn't pursue it... um... what am I missing here?
 

drak_ool

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Troll alert here?

so yesterday you were invited to fvck a girl, today a girl tells you she likes d1ck and... you didn't even get a #?

i don't buy it
 

mix_master

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I have no excuses. My friend wanted to bail, and instead of staying with the action, well...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Joe Stud

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I know a fine sexy girl that is the same way. She's almost like a "man, in a hb10' body". I love it. i love her! She says what's on her mind. Thats one in a million.
 
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