"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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cablecow15

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i think this one girls cute and have been talking to her onmyspace for alilwhile and said hi once or twice at school and recently a kid i somewhat kno said ooo ur the kid that likes jessica ..wtf i never said i like her does this mean she likes me or should i be like listen idk what u think but i dont like u i mean ur prettyand all but i don even know you . to make her feel stupid or what . i mean it seems like shes avoiding me almost and im kinda pissed
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't let that guy affect your game at all. For some reason however, they feel you are showing too much interest too soon or that guy just really doesn't like you, he might even be possibly jealous. Whatever the case, don't let him get in the way of you and that girl.

If she is ignoring you, it shows she agrees with that other guy in the fact that you are showing too much interest too soon and you actually do like her. Turn it down a notch, you need to become more vibrant and make sure she knows that YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she just isn't responding in any way, find another girl. Plenty of fish in the sea.

Just don't be pissed at a situation like this one, it happens all the time and you need to learn how to deal with them appropriately. Relax, re-read what I stated above, and you will be more than fine.

Best of luck to your situation.
 
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