yea ive posted about this subject before but its getting freakin retarded on whats going on. My so called "friends" gf which ive known even before my friend met her is ruining my sh!t. I couldve fvcked one of her friends and more. but not anymore. She just thinks im conceded which i am but hey im a prize im good looking (not just in my head) hear compliments all the time and got some sh!t going for myself. im proud of what ive done and how i look. anyways im at a bar tonight and she goes up to my brother when im not around with one of her friends and says "this is XXXX hes cool but i hate his brother hes this and that and blah blah blah." this is one of a couple of times. my bro told me after she left. she did this sh!t like 3 weeks ago. same thing went up to my brother in front of other girls and said about the same sh!t. im freakin nice to her i say hi im polite. i think my "friend" paints a bad picture of me which is untrue to her. But fvck them both shes spreading sh!t and hes adding fuel to the fire. So i texted him and said "dude tell your b1tch to stop talking sh!t tell her to keep that sh!t to herself." Honestly it so uncalled for to keep on saying that sh!t about me to other people when i dont even know her. Before i didnt care but now its bugging me that sh!t like this is happeneidng. i dont even talk about anyone bad defiantley not her and she still finds the need. that dude aint even my friend anymore and that girl better not come across my path.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girl talking sh!t about me all the time for no reason
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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a few possibilities:
1. She wants you but thinks she can't have you (i.e. sour grapes)
2. You slighted her badly
1. She wants you but thinks she can't have you (i.e. sour grapes)
2. You slighted her badly
I'll tell you what you need to do to this girl
IMMENSLY bust her balls in a social place. embaress her in a very funny and ****y way and keep laughing at her despite what she says. Once she knows you have the power to embaress her, she will not dare anymore.
That is the only solution.
This girl is a ***** and either wants you really bad, so wants to play with your game,or just plain simply hates you.
IMMENSLY bust her balls in a social place. embaress her in a very funny and ****y way and keep laughing at her despite what she says. Once she knows you have the power to embaress her, she will not dare anymore.
That is the only solution.
This girl is a ***** and either wants you really bad, so wants to play with your game,or just plain simply hates you.
Who cares man. Do you care? Or is there something else going on here?
Look I'm not using this as a chance to bust on you. What I'm worried about is this seems to be getting to you (otherwise you wouldn't have started a thread about it). Your not a child anymore, and neither is she. If she has to talk bad about you behind your back to anyone that will listen, well then I think you should know its because she has self-esteem issues. I suggest you just sit back and role with the punches. Letting someone know they're getting to you is the best way to prolong anything of this sort. People like victims that fight back, not boring ones that say nothing.
Treat her like a friend (of course tease her a little when you get the chance) and in the end make her feel bad for saying all these things about you. Think about the last person you formed a negative opinion about and found out afterwards they weren't half-bad. Even though the only thing you did wrong was rushing judgement, you still felt bad about it. Maybe even tempted to apoligize.
The high road is your best friend here, use it.
Look I'm not using this as a chance to bust on you. What I'm worried about is this seems to be getting to you (otherwise you wouldn't have started a thread about it). Your not a child anymore, and neither is she. If she has to talk bad about you behind your back to anyone that will listen, well then I think you should know its because she has self-esteem issues. I suggest you just sit back and role with the punches. Letting someone know they're getting to you is the best way to prolong anything of this sort. People like victims that fight back, not boring ones that say nothing.
Treat her like a friend (of course tease her a little when you get the chance) and in the end make her feel bad for saying all these things about you. Think about the last person you formed a negative opinion about and found out afterwards they weren't half-bad. Even though the only thing you did wrong was rushing judgement, you still felt bad about it. Maybe even tempted to apoligize.
The high road is your best friend here, use it.
HMMM, I wonder why u keep saying " i dont want to bust you but im worried blah blah". U have said this in several threads.milrenkb said:Who cares man. Do you care? Or is there something else going on here?
Look I'm not using this as a chance to bust on you. What I'm worried about is this seems to be getting to you (otherwise you wouldn't have started a thread about it).
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I can see this is a persuasoin technique that you have picked up, smart ass to make your posts more convincing.
good for u. seems to be working on a few peeps( and im not one of them obviously).
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
khash said:HMMM, I wonder why u keep saying " i dont want to bust you but im worried blah blah". U have said this in several threads.
I can see this is a persuasoin technique that you have picked up, smart ass to make your posts more convincing.
good for u. seems to be working on a few peeps( and im not one of them obviously).
All I'm doing is being honest. If what I'm doing really is nothing more than a persuassion technique, then its definately something I picked up along the way without knowing it. My goal while I'm here in the community is to help people, not undermine them. Saying something along the lines of" i dont want to bust you but im worried blah blah" simplily reinforces that I'm there to help, not put them down becasue of whatever problems they're putting out in the open.
People get offended easily, especially on a forum when the only way to determine the tone of any given post is mainly to guess. The only things that are clear cut are formats like this that say when I TYPE LIKE THIS I'M YELLING.
When your here you should have one of two main goals
1. To learn from other people that can teach you something
2. To help people that ask for it.
Anything else means your probably walking around with some sort of agenda.
So there, now you have all the facts, if you still want to bust on me for trying to help others than thats your prerogative.