"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl tagged me as "follower" on fb.

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This girl who's a total slut put me as her follower #9 out of 10.

U see, on my last birthday i wanted some "hoe's". So i told my female friend to bring all of her (slutty) friends. I fed them all drunk with malibu coke and then we went out. Nothing happened, but i think i did score another girl that night in the club.

So i did ask specifically for this girl, hehehe, along with 2 other girls. I felt like a real Don (Corleone?) on that day. Smoked about 7 joints. My whole fridge was 100% full of alcohol. We didnt even finish half of it.(fail?)

A month later she came over to my house to bring me back a pair of pants i leant her(also to 2 other girls, who didnt return any pants) after a foam party. I got out of bed and had some coffee, and she started talking about her relationship and how its going well. After half an hour she left.

Last time i saw her she was crying over some relationship bull**** in the middle of the dancefloor. I gave her a kiss on the cheek and tried to console her a little bit. Then i let it go. Her boyfriend was ignoring her, and not really paying attention to me either.

Now i havent spoken to her since then(december), but i told my female friend i wanted to hang out with her and her (slut) friends a month ago.

But her putting me as follower #9. Is that something i'm supposed to tolerate? I dont even want to respond.

I'm sure she loves me, as do most women who have a boyfriend, but her boyfriend has a reputation for fighting.

On a side note:

Their other friend, who has been in an LTR for a year, is a perfect HB9. She's been eyeing me for years. But once she gets her validation she'll just walk off(this was before i found this site). I'm 10x better looking than that guy, he seems super metro, but he must have game. He's small though so he's not a problem. The HB9 used to be my colleague, and she used to talk about how she's a virgin and stuff with her HB8 friend(indirect IOI). They were like 14 at the time, and i was 19.

Maybe i could somehow work my way into their night life and see if i could score that HB9. All i have to do is go over there!! (I think). Because of their herd mentality: if 1 likes me they'll all like me.

I'm in the FZ with the HB6, but i dont really see her often cuz her personality is horrible.

I'll see if they wanna meet up and get drunk again. We had alot of fun last time.
The HB9 is only 16. I'm 21. Usually i'll draw a line but she's too hot.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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not me!
 

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Chamber36 said:
but her boyfriend has a reputation for fighting.
If you dude's feelings will be hurt if you eff his broad, why do want to eff her? If some a$$ really worth the heartache, acrimony, and possible arrest?

I have a question. Why are you friends with women on Facebook, you're not having sex with?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maximus Rex said:
I have a question. Why are you friends with women on Facebook, you're not having sex with?
Probably cuz im a nice guy. I've always had a lack of pvssy. I used to reek of AFCness.

That's why I'm trying to improve my game. I want to be more action, less doubt. Right now is very much of a learning process for me.

I used to chase women too much. I didnt give a fvck wat i said. I still dont. I wasnt using the Don Juan inside me, i was an AFC.

I'm only writing down all this bullsh!t to process it in my own head. It might not be very helpfull to anyone, but it is for me.

im still very conciously thinking about female psychology. No real heartbreak, i'm just disappointed in myself for falling for their tricks, and disappointed in alot of girls for being retarded.

I'm also a very linear thinker, whereas women are incoherent. I want to understand!!

BTW i can feel my inner Don Juan becoming more confident. I usually have to transform into him though. I love it. I know he's inside me. He just has to come out more often :). He's all about lyrics too. I noticed that if i just lose my ego, and tell a girl the most ridiculous stuff, she might initially tell me to get away from her, but she'll still want some kisses from me if i see her a week later. Some of them might just grab my c0ck immediately too. Depends on the girl.
 

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Chamber36 said:
Probably cuz im a nice guy
Stop being a "nice guy."

Chamber36 said:
That's why I'm trying to improve my game. I want to be more action, less doubt. Right now is very much of a learning process for me.
If you're sincere I have a reading assigment for you.

Read:

a) The DJ Bible and The Book Of Pook.

b) Read "The Game, Penertrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists."

c) Read "The Mystery Method,"

d) Do the DJ Bootcamp.

e) Inpliment the techniques and strategies

f) Be willing to fail.

6) DON'T TEXT!

I'm also a very linear thinker, whereas women are incoherent. I want to understand!!
Being that you're a linear thinker, the Mystery Method is aligned with your thinking process. The game is linear. If you do the things, I've suggested, they you'll come to a another level of understanding.

Keep a journal and post on your sarges. Also don't ask any questions at this stage. More than likely, any question you have will be answered in the reading assignment. Don't be like a lot of these knuckleheads who saturate this broad with asinine questions that have been answered in the reading material.

Once you've compeleted the reading assingment and are doing the DJ boot camp, your questions will be more pointed and related to strategy which will improve the overall quality of the board. Good luck.
 

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If you're sincere I have a reading assigment for you.

Read:

a) The DJ Bible and The Book Of Pook.

b) Read "The Game, Penertrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists."

c) Read "The Mystery Method,"

d) Do the DJ Bootcamp.

e) Inpliment the techniques and strategies

f) Be willing to fail.

6) DON'T TEXT!

7) Start getting into more arguments with women. They love it.
 

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@ Maximus Rex:

Thx alot!
That's the kind of advice i need.

@SharinganUser:

I will.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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