"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl supposed to be leaving the country wants to meet... also she has BF...

Infern0

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A former plate who it almost went LTR with but **** happened.

She went back to her ex and made rash plans to move overseas i think in like 2 weeks.

She messaged me tonight asking if I'd meet her to go out for dinner...

Checked FB relationship status still in a relationship.

Things between us ended kind of "unfinished" if that makes sense and i was shocked she went back to her ex it happened after we didnt talk for a couple of weeks.

What's her game?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheGambino

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It means that she's a emotional woman who seeks adventure. She misses emotional needs from her current bf and you still make her tingle.

You probably played it right, you didn't act too needy, you f8cked her well, you make her tingle. Your a side piece for her.

I would play the side role and go to the date. Make sure you pay only half, get her some drinks, go over to hers or yours, f8ck her like a major champ, keep it light and positive and go on your way again.

Send her a short and sweet text afterwards and ghost, do what you did before. No rocket science, and no need to overthink this one, most women f8ck around when her bf doesn't fullfill all her needs. She probably uses him for some reasons and gets back to you (and probably more guys) too cvm.
 
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She’s going overseas and most likely wants to have some fun before she leaves. I’m sure you can do exactly like Gambino said and get her laid after a few drinks.

If your consciousness can handle it then go for it. Personallly, I think we should strive to be better men than that. Fvcking a taken girl is disrespectful to a fellow guy - regardless if you know him or not.
 
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