"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl Suddenly Lost Interest Despite TIGHT Game?

CMNILS87

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Your game wasn't really all that tight.
But that’s the crux of Hubris. You think a date goes well and you’re flowing and she’s laughing at all your jokes. There’s s lot of you in there. You’re not really getting her side of the story unless she’s love he’s over heels says she had a **** ton of fun. You tried too hard, you weren’t cute enough, who knows.

It’s the dates where you think meh, I could go either way if this was good or bad and those are the chicks who text you back because you don’t take the date as seriously. Gotta treat a 8-9 the same as a 5
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In the age of disposable relationships, any amount of things could have happened. One of them is certainly that your game was not as tight as you suggested.

Since that is the only factor you can control, I suggest you examine what you could have done differently. While it may not have affected the eventual outcome, it would be completely foolish to disregard your actions as a possible source.
 

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But that’s the crux of Hubris. You think a date goes well and you’re flowing and she’s laughing at all your jokes. There’s s lot of you in there. You’re not really getting her side of the story unless she’s love he’s over heels says she had a **** ton of fun. You tried too hard, you weren’t cute enough, who knows.

It’s the dates where you think meh, I could go either way if this was good or bad and those are the chicks who text you back because you don’t take the date as seriously. Gotta treat a 8-9 the same as a 5
In the age of disposable relationships, any amount of things could have happened. One of them is certainly that your game was not as tight as you suggested.

Since that is the only factor you can control, I suggest you examine what you could have done differently. While it may not have affected the eventual outcome, it would be completely foolish to disregard your actions as a possible source.
That's well put. Even if your game is beyond excellent it can probably never be 100% water-tight. There's always a new hole to plug.

I mean that on multiple levels haha
 

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Just had this happen this week. High interest last weekend. Now, nothing. We are supposed to go out Sunday. I work Saturdays. I'm feeling a flake comin on, and my thoughts are another dude who stepped in. He may get flaked as well.
 

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She's not flakin now, def interested. I'm tired (and will be tired) as fvck from work. I've had much pvssy but what's yet one more? If she can play the game good then I'll get turned on more. Alcohol will be a factor. Will try to make love to her all night.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls who give it up on the first date are more than likely either unhappy in their current relationship, freshly single (prob heartbroken), or are just sloots. The faster I hit, the less surprised I would be if she ghosts. Sometimes they reappear, sometimes they don't. I wouldn't overthink it.
 

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To everyone saying OP's game wasn't tight or not good enough (clearly it was good enough for him to smash on 1st date)

This is nonsense, OP it could be anything

an ex came back
she met a new guy
She felt guilty for letting you smash etc etc

You can over-analyse but why bother? there to many girls out here, real life isn't like the forums, IMO you did good

Charge it to the game
 

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If she's not chasing you, you're done.

A tight game includes being soo irresistably attractive to women, that they would build a rocket to chase you to the moon. Anything less than her full attention, is a waste of your time.

Go fish.
 
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