"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl stops responding after asking my ethnicity...

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Pretty much what everyone else said... Everyone has different tastes, standards, and preferences. Just the way it is. You can be attractive, and people can appreciate that... But it doesn't mean they're into you. I see a lot of good-looking black people, but I'm not personally attracted to them. But there are some stunners who would be the exception.

It's no big deal. I'm Iranian / Persian, but have no problems getting women. Where I used to live was mostly white people, and there were no difficulties getting dates and finding interest. Most of them did not care about race at all. Some were even intrigued by it.

I think it has to do more with everything else - instead of just race. Just like the height issue. Or being nice. I'm short, nice, and middle eastern... Come on now. That should be the kiss of death trio - if you believed what people say - but not at all. Though, if I wasn't physically attractive in the eyes of women, it would probably be a much different story.

That's why I always say: looks matter more than people think, and women would like you to believe. They just don't want to be perceived as shallow. Much like how they don't want to be perceived as sluts when they're whoring around. If you were a gorgeous Indian, do you think they'd care? Probably not. It's always if someone is crazy about you, or just not that into you. When someone's NOT crazy about you - they nitpick, don't allow as much, look for excuses to not date, etc. Otherwise they don't care.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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