girl still banging her ex while with me

[pyros]

Hello.


I met this girl some months ago. She's 27, HB8, international student. We met because we have some friends in common.
She explained to me that she came to my country to fix things with her ex but he was not sure.
This guy is from my country. She told me that they had a weird ending blah blah.

Well, we hit it off pretty good, and we made out one day.
We made out four times in two months. Two times she could not meet with me cause she was with her ex. She's always been talking about how much pain he caused to her, and still does.
Well, after our 6th make out session, we had sex. We had it three times before she left the country (she's a international student).

In the last 7 months she's came to my country twice for a week, and she's kept seing her ex bf while seing me as well; she tried to hid it but I know because I saw her/them in a club. She asked me before leaving the country if I'd like to date her and have something serious. Well I did not know at the time since we had such a brief 'relationship' (10 dates, 3 times sex), and we do not live in the same country, although she said several times that she would like to move to my country and that she wanted to come see her friends and see me whenever she could.

Anyway, Im not sure that I want something serious because 1) she does not live in my country and 2) she's been all these months still banging and seing her ex, so I guess she just wants to branch swing.


What do you think?
Thanks.

 

[3countriesPlan]

I can maybe guess what countries she might be from... lol anyways dude you gotta think here from a neutral point of view. Why would you want something serious with a girl like that who can't even pick one dude to bang and who is all over the place. She is all over the place now and will remain that way because that is who she is.. .. people dont just change overnight and most never change.

Long distance is a complete waste of time, you need to have a piece of azz that you have easy access too.. not one that you need to fly over oceans and mountains for and who might be getting easily accessed by some player in her city of permanent residence.

 

[pyros]

Hi Brad!

she's from the Czech Republic. But what do you think about a girl that does what she's doing?
she's had sex with me a few times while meeting her ex....all this during 7 months! and we've justs seen each other 12 times.


P.S.
Btw, do you remember my story about this girl that I almost banged but we argued because of her being late etc etc?

Well, this ****ing ***** just keeps calling me so we go to dance salsa.
This is the only stupid thing she wants to do with me.
She's asked me to go dancing around 6 times, to which I just accepted 1.
I went, she was with some friends at the club, we danced, she danced pretty bad, we talked, I got bored because 1) she has not improved her dancing 2) the conversation was boring. So after an hour and a bit more I just left her there with her friends.

BUT, she has called me again today to go to dance salsa again!!!!
is she just retarded or what??

Two months ago, I refused to go to dance, and I suggest to go watch a movie at her place and she declined saying she had cold.

Can you understand her behaviour???
I wanted to reply something like:
well we can go to dance after we have sex at your place. (just to see her reaction)
Thanks.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Btw, do you remember my story about this girl that I almost banged but we argued because of her being late etc etc?

Well, this ****ing ***** just keeps calling me so we go to dance salsa.
This is the only stupid thing she wants to do with me.
She's asked me to go dancing around 6 times, to which I just accepted 1.
I went, she was with some friends at the club, we danced, she danced pretty bad, we talked, I got bored because 1) she has not improved her dancing 2) the conversation was boring. So after an hour and a bit more I just left her there with her friends.

BUT, she has called me again today to go to dance salsa again!!!!
is she just retarded or what??

Two months ago, I refused to go to dance, and I suggest to go watch a movie at her place and she declined saying she had cold.

Can you understand her behaviour???
I wanted to reply something like:
well we can go to dance after we have sex at your place. (just to see her reaction)
Thanks.

Come up with some ridiculous excuse as to why you can't go...say your leg has fallen asleep or you don't go dancing on Saturdays because it's against your religious beliefs. Make sure to post her response here for some laughs!

 

[incognito42]

I'd say "we can go dance after we have sex at your place", and see what happens. Cut through the bs and find out what she's about. It'll come off funny and at the same time bold and blunt. If she doesn't like it who cares. Obviously you're getting irritated with her and ready to move on anyways