"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girl stares but doesn't wave.

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i just got off the bus with my pal. there was this HB8 sitting on the bus behind me. but she saw me and my friend. she was staring at me a few times, and also when we got of the bus, no doubt. so we hop off and i thought, what the hell, and we both gave her a wave. and she just ignored it. it was just for fun anyway.

a couple possiblities i've thought of:

she thought we were immature?
she wasn't interested. (yet she was checking me out)
she is just ignorant like most good looking girls.

what do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Tails
what do you guys think?
I think that this post ranks right up there with DJ_Superstar's "HB10 looked at me!" thread from earlier today.

You've managed 300 posts
You've read the bible
You've read the site and forums


Yet you make posts asking what you should have done when a girl looks at you...


:shakes head:
 

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lol. i didn't ask what i should do.

i was just telling you guys something. i just wanted to know what other people think on this.
 

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I think it looked weak that ya'll waved at her when getting off the bus.
 
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Tails, are you bored? Must you start a thread on every observation and daily scenario?

The Bus girl probably saw you picking your nose or something and was looking at you in disbelief! :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yes, i am bored. you're replying to it, so why not eh?

:D
 

Kineti[C]harm

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NOONE ON EARTH CAN ANSWER THAT QUESTION. Probably not the girl either.
 

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why would she?

why would a girl, hot or not, wave to two pefect strangers. you could be serial killers for all she knows. she doesn't know you. Women, in general, in public, always have their guard up. And do not usually go looking to meet men in the street, on a bus, etc. If you were sitting on the bench beside her, you could possibly start up a conversation, but to just wave at a stranger?? that's kinda creepy.:mad:
 

ScrewIt

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dude, stop posting your daily activities here. if u like to talk so much go talk to a wall. we DONT want to know what you do everyday.

freakin posting 100 **** posts here every damn week
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I wouldn't mind him posting hundreds posts a day if there was something interesting discussed in there. This is plain weak. Next!
 

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Originally posted by Tails
i just got off the bus with my pal. there was this HB8 sitting on the bus behind me. but she saw me and my friend. she was staring at me a few times, and also when we got of the bus, no doubt. so we hop off and i thought, what the hell, and we both gave her a wave. and she just ignored it. it was just for fun anyway.

a couple possiblities i've thought of:

she thought we were immature?
she wasn't interested. (yet she was checking me out)
she is just ignorant like most good looking girls.

what do you guys think?
maybe she thought, these guys look good, I wish they would approach me, but alas, no approach was ever attempted, just a weak AFC hand wave after they exited the bus.

No balls, no blue chips.
 
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