Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Once again, body game is HUGE. It's not everything, but will let you be HOT when the clothes drop even on females who dont' even like your "type"!
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
About the video though... seems like it's her job to check them for stuff. I bet she enjoys it though. Those piggish women, taking our bodies for granted like they can just look at them for sexual objectification how they please!
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
There really is nothing wrong with those boot-camps, you can learn some stuff if you have trouble meeting and talking to women. But if you do not work on yourself, and try to look the best you can, and be in the best shape possible, your success will be limited.
Work out.... be in the best shape possible, don't smoke or drink too much. Eat well.
Dress the best you can... you don't have to wear expensive clothes, but what you have should fit you. Make sure you have your life in order, you keep your car, your body, and where you live CLEAN.
Get rid of your X-Box or PlayStation and use the time you wasted on that stupidity in actual self improvement... For the amount of time many people waste playing video games you can learn a new language.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Preach
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PeasantPlayer
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Maximus Rex
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Which PUA instructor said that?
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
They all have weekend bootcamps and are trying to sell you service. Name ONE PUA that would turn a client away saying "Hey... I'm not taking your money until you lose some weight, workout get in shape, get some better clothes and a life." No they teach game... because that is what you can do over a weekend or over the phone. They teach guys that you can overcome looks with game and confidence. You really can't. You NEED game and confidence, that is certain, but if you want to increase the quality of women that you can attract. you better be the best you can be.
NO COACH or PUA can teach you to be a better person, that's totally on the individual.
PeasantPlayer
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Not entirely true
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Agree with your post up until this part.
1) Time isn't "wasted" just because you're enjoying yourself. The key is moderation though.
2) In regards to learning a new language. If you're in a first world country, learning a new language can be a waste of time
Let me expand on 2. I'm in the United States. 99%+ of everyone I will ever meet speaks English. This is a luxury. There is no need for me to speak a different language. Now, if I decide to learn a new language just for funsies, to "improve" myself.... not only would I would have to put in a big effort to learn the language, I'd have to continually practice it. But practice it with who? Talk to myself?
I'd personally rather play video games than learn a new language.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Not sure about that, i think it depends on the language. Speaking Arabic or German would be pretty badass tbh. So would some African languages that have tongue clicks in their letters too. And maybe even some super ancient language that no one even uses anymore like Syriac or Latin. But I see your point.
As to the thread, those dudes are ripped. How many guys do you know were as shredded as those guys? When a man takes of his shirt, it's totally making her panties drip if the dude is toned and muscular. But if he has b!tch tits that are larger than his mother's, then she's gonna become 'dehydrated' and puke.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Enjoying yourself is important because it feels you with joy and bliss, it's great to work hard, but there is a balance.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
1. Well I agree. I suppose my problem is that I really don't see any real enjoyment out of video games. When I have fun it's usually doing something like basketball in my over 40 league, golf, bowling, racquetball... biking, diving, surfing. I also like to build stuff, volunteer of Habitat for Humanity. I've always preferred to do physical stuff.... from a different time I suppose. We didn't have home video games until I was I guess in high school, and that was those old Attari pong cr@pola stuff, so I never developed a fondness for that.
2. Speaking French has helped me out IMMENSELY with the ladies. Nothing says bad@ss better then yelling and cussing someone out in Russian or German. Working on Spanish now, in the US that is fast becoming VERY useful.
Maximus Rex
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well there's a difference between knowing a bunch of words and phrases, and then learning the language. The latter requires a lot of commitment, especially when you have no compelling reason to speak said language like ever. For example, if I was to learn French I would basically need to go out of my way to regularly practice for no other reason than... to not forget it. Big hassle. But you bring up a good point about just learning key phrases so you can say basic things and be a cheeky bastard. I could see myself doing that.
RangerMIke
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No it isn't. Or I don't see it, please be specific where these statements contradict? And I will try to clarify.
In2theGame
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From personal experience, Looks hold big time weight. The chick in the vid was probably in a horny state and prob hasnt gotten it good in a while so it excited her.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.