"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl So Attracted To Me, Then Left The Next Day!

diu

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I'm confused. I've been seeing a girl for a few weeks, and it was really hot between us. She had a boyfriend of two years. But that didn't matter whenever we were together. There were sparks flying all over the place!

Weeks pass and our passion continues. We seldom see each other as she lives so far away, but both of us equally put in the effort to meet up. One day she tells me how much she likes me, and our relationship, and next thing I know, she's gone!

No more calls, SMS's, suggestions to meet up, nothing! Just a simple message once in a while. She also seems extra hard to get a hold of lately. I have no idea why.

I'm just curious as to how a girl can be so extreme in this game of hot and cold. I've tried calling her but the response is lukewarm. She was really fun, and she's leaving for Canada in a week. Thought of just having a great time with her before she leaves.

Guess that's not possible now?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mr_knowit_all

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diu said:
I'm confused. I've been seeing a girl for a few weeks, and it was really hot between us. She had a boyfriend of two years. But that didn't matter whenever we were together. There were sparks flying all over the place!

Weeks pass and our passion continues. We seldom see each other as she lives so far away, but both of us equally put in the effort to meet up. One day she tells me how much she likes me, and our relationship, and next thing I know, she's gone!

No more calls, SMS's, suggestions to meet up, nothing! Just a simple message once in a while. She also seems extra hard to get a hold of lately. I have no idea why.

I'm just curious as to how a girl can be so extreme in this game of hot and cold. I've tried calling her but the response is lukewarm. She was really fun, and she's leaving for Canada in a week. Thought of just having a great time with her before she leaves.

Guess that's not possible now?
Who gives a crap why she's acting like that? If she pulls away, you pull away further. There are plenty of other women out there, and you're a tool for messing with a chick who's in a 2 year relationship. Sorry to tell you this, but you were just a side show for a woman who has no class.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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diu said:
I've been seeing a girl for a few weeks, and it was really hot between us. She had a boyfriend of two years. But that didn't matter whenever we were together.
What mattered was that she wasn't with you as much as she was with him. She wasn't that into you.
 

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You know you cook bacon on the stove, and it sizzles and spits fat for a bit, and then the fats gone and it gets all dried out and brittle.

Ding.
 
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