Heres the situation. I had a party the other night. Went great everybody got messed up and had a good time. Last week I introduced myself to one of my fine neighbors. She pulled up and her car was smoking so I walked over talked to her about it, gave her some advice and got her number. Told her about the party. Texted her the night before to remind her of it...no response. Day of the party texted again during like around 9:30, said were out here partying you should come over...etc. Gotta text back at 11:30 asking if we were still here, said yea you should come by. She got over around 12:00 hung out with us for a while. Ended up leaving her at the apt. talking to my neighbor so that I could walk a few of my female friends to the subway. When I get back its just me, her and my neighbor who eventually leaves. Then it's just me and her and we were talking, etc. Ended up talking about music and some song she just heard that she likes. So I said oh we can go download it, so then I get her in my bedroom on my bed with the laptop downloading and listening to music. Were talking for a while holding hands and arm around her, but no kissing or heavy touching, then I said "you wanna stay over?" and she was like yea sure. So I go get ready for bed, come back get in bed we got close cuddled but no kissing or nothing. End up sleeping with her in the bed all night, without anything! happening. In the morning when she left I kissed her, but thats all. I guess I wasn't confident enough cause she seemed a little distant, but if she didn't like me she wouldn't of slept over right? she lives right across the street.
So, what are the chances she's gonna think im a *****. I mean she wasn't initiating any contact at all, so I didn't try anything. I know I ****ed up, and if I had just taken her clothes off I probably could of done anything with her. Anyways called her the next day, no answer then later she txt's me and says we should hang out sometime soon.
Other things to consider are that she is black and I am white. She is a single mother. But she is smoking and I would think on a rating scale she is definitely like a good 2 - 3 points better looking than I am. Other thing is I was raised in a very sexually repressed culture of fundamentalist Christianity. I'm not a virgin, but I have trouble escalating things with females sometimes...even though I'm not socially awkward and am fairly successful at meeting women.
So, what are the chances she's gonna think im a *****. I mean she wasn't initiating any contact at all, so I didn't try anything. I know I ****ed up, and if I had just taken her clothes off I probably could of done anything with her. Anyways called her the next day, no answer then later she txt's me and says we should hang out sometime soon.
Other things to consider are that she is black and I am white. She is a single mother. But she is smoking and I would think on a rating scale she is definitely like a good 2 - 3 points better looking than I am. Other thing is I was raised in a very sexually repressed culture of fundamentalist Christianity. I'm not a virgin, but I have trouble escalating things with females sometimes...even though I'm not socially awkward and am fairly successful at meeting women.
