"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am not "beta". I have had flings with other girls and recently developed feelings for this one.
Exactly what she wants.

Look, you are not around this girl all the time. Who knows what she does to other guys. Does she like you? Yes. Does she want to fvck you? NO! Otherwise in 7 fvcking years you would have smashed it by now.

I guarantee you this- if you walked up to her right now and told her that you want to take her back to your place and beat that pvssy up she would say "I cant do that.....we are such good friends and I dont want to ruin it".

And what should you do about this situation that has went on and now you're developing feelings? You should walk up to her the next time you are semi alone and say "You know, I really want to hook up with you. Lets go to ___ and make it happen". Then she will either be down to smash or she will give you the lets just be friends speech.

Either way, you have your answer and move on with it. You are becoming (or have become) an orbiter for her and dont realize it yet. Get to business and get your answer.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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