Girl situation

[DonJuan4ever]

Hey all,



I was dating this girl that I met online. We went out twice. It seemed like we got along well and on the second date I kissed her.

I was semi into her. We had stuff in common but there wasn't like a huge spark plus she lives pretty far so we would have to meet somewhere in between. The lack of spark was due to the fact that she is pretty dull like a librarian type. She was too serious and hardly laughed or smiled and didn't seem to have a fun side. Looks wise she was okay except for the 2 moles on her face which was kind of gross. I looked past that because she seemed nice and she was pretty smart too not like a typical POF girl.

On top of that, I am still a virgin and I'm trying to get laid. I'm 25 so it is really important to lose that v-card soon.


Besides all that, I called her and she didn't answer or call back. I sent her a text a couple days later to call her out on her flakiness. She finally responded on POF saying that "I'm sorry I ignored you, I took some bad advice from someone, but it was rude, you are a nice guy but I didn't feel a connection." That was shocking considering she let me know kiss her and we were holding hands while we were walking. She seemed into me at the time.

Maybe I was being too nice or something or I came off as too desperate. I've never had a girlfriend which bothers me. I'm a good guy and I know that I should be able to get a quality girl and I don't want to settle for anything less.


Should I reply to her "blow off" reply to me or just let it go and move on. I was just really shocked because we kissed and I thought we had a good time. Her schedule sucks and she lives far away. She was clearly not willing to invest her time to go out with me for whatever reason.

It's just so tough to meet girls now that I'm out of school and working. It's random in person and online dating just sucks..

 

[Maximummax]

Step 1) Forget about this chick, Next her. You cannot fix it what already happened
Step 2) Read DJ bible, practice it and perform it
Step 3) You will see the results.

You have some major faults in you for acting like a nice guy. Stop it

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

A kiss is just a kiss, my friend.

There's nothing else to say to the girl. I wouldn't bother responding. It doesn't benefit you in any way.

I recently went out on a 2nd date with a girl. I ended with a kiss, and then I decided I didn't want to call her anymore. So I did to her what your girl did to you. It just happens. Sometimes it feels right to end the date with a kiss...and then when you think about it, you're like "Eh, I'm not that into her. I'll just walk away now before it gets too serious."

 

[SgtSplacker]

Dude kill this oneitis with quite honestly a girl that doesn't deserve it. You went out on a couple dates, kissed her that's excellent practice. Keep the ball rolling man. Read the articles here, go fourth and splack my boy It's your birthright!

And stop being so mushy and nice dude, it'll get you nowhere.

If you really are 25 and still a virgin I will have you know that you are prime MILF material. There are 1,000,000,000,000 women over the age of 35 that are dying to eat you alive. Go for cougars to loose that V card man. Go to upscale bars during happy hour where older women go to hang out or hotel bars where there may be a lady just having a couple drinks before she catches her flight home. Be funny & sexual, ask her questions about her sexuality, then tell her you are a virgin. SHE WILL GO CRAZY... trust me man. It's rare to be your age and still a virgin your golden right now! The best thing is that your awkwardness will work for you in this scenario.

Older single business women tend to have this man-eater personality thing going. They are single and on the prowl for men to bang. They are aggressive and consider themselves kinda like super women. They love the pool boy fantasies. If you don't tell them your a virgin then she'll just think your a dork. But if you do tell her then now she want's to leave her mark on you. She knows you will never forget this lay. She knows this is going to be awesome for you. She knows you don't have diseases. She knows she wants to bang you. She's tired of being taken out by guys with nice cars and lots of money. She is desperate for something real, something different. Shes desperate for YOU.

 

[pdx1138]

heed the advice posted.

on a side note, I had a cougar one night and was very disappointed how bad the head she gave for a 50+ year old.