"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl showing Signs of interest... or maybe just nothing at all?

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I was doing some movie extra work the other day, and we were doing a concert scene....

Anyway after we were waiting in between takes this 7HB in front of me starts playing with her hair (and i mean a foot in front of my head, almost in my face) starts grabbing her hair, which is to the middle of her shoulder blades in length, and starts twisting it multiple times up the back and to side of her head, like 8+ times. Serious twisting, nothing small.

The back of her neck when she twisted her hair up, about 9 inches away from my face.

And several times while doing so, didn't look directly at me , but glanced off to the side of me... But I couldn' help (anyone couldn't have helped being so close behind her) but to look at her. Though she never looked me directly in the eye.

I never said anything to her :down: , but was this a sign of interest? Like her trying to say, hey, talk to me..

Or is this nothing and I'm just looking for scraps?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HereToImprove

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Maybe an AI, but it seems rather nebulous.
 

brenbaus

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I'm still learing all the little things females do to say "Hey, I want you!" but what I do know is you need to stop being a wuss, if you think she is fime, talk to her, what is the worst thing that can happen? She turnes you down, while if you don't do anything, you have absolutly no chance of getting any further than staring at her @ss. You need to read the bible
 

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Im so tired of these hair posts. The hair thing only counts when your talking to her and she starts twirling her hair around her finger or flicking her hair back. OK

Even then it could mean nothing there another 100 signs that give away she’s into you. Just because she’s playing with her hair when she’s close to you it doesn’t mean she’s into you.

Use your brain

Ninja Out
 

Jaun_Don

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Im so tired of these hair posts. The hair thing only counts when your talking to her and she starts twirling her hair around her finger or flicking her hair back. OK

Even then it could mean nothing there another 100 signs that give away she’s into you. Just because she’s playing with her hair when she’s close to you it doesn’t mean she’s into you.

Use your brain

Ninja Out
yes and no, hair to a Woman is a very powerful thing and they know it, you go to bars and watch the girls that are trying to get a guys attention and watch what they do, they fix and adjust there hair and when approached if they like what they see then the hair flicking off the face etc is in effect at least in my experience.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Black_Italian

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This guy is saying she was fixing her hair when she was next to him does that mean she likes him.

Its like saying a girl blinked her eyes when she was next to me am i going to marry her?
 

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I wouldn't say "fixing". She was just pulling and twisting on the entire back of her hair, multiple times like I said. Not fixing or changing anything. And she was not, "next" to me, she was directly in front of me.

But, maybe still your right and it really means nothing.
 

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well why wont you just ask for her # and all this mystery ? it's either can be a yes or no:woo:
 
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