Girl showed interest, and now nothing?

[pyros]

Hi.


Met this chick some weeks ago. Got her number and FB.
Last week I asked her out on wednesday for drinks on friday night, to chich she replied that she had a party, so I suggested that we could meet some other time, to which she replied that next week would be ok.

Next week came, in other words, this week. I asked her out again for friday night or saturday evening, to which she replied:

'oh I dont know because it depends whether Im meeting my female friend on friday night or not, can I confirm it to you tomorrow?'

I did not reply anything.


What do you think? I attempted two times. She seems to have low interest so Im not doing anything else with her.
Opinions?

Thanks.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Hey Pyros:

So, here's the thing: when you first meet a girl, asking her out for weekend dates are one of the WORST things you can do. Friday and Saturday date nights are usually reserved for couples who are already in a relationship; by proposing a weekend date, you're saying to a girl that you already see your "relationship" with her in a more serious light than is currently warranted.

Now, I'm sure you're not viewing it like that at all. You're probably thinking that it's better to ask her out on a weekend because she's not working, and would therefore have time to go out. But that's not how SHE'S thinking about it. If she's going to give up the most valuable free time days she has, it's going to be with someone she already has a standing relationship with - someone she already KNOWS she will have a good time being around. YOU are not yet that person.

The best course of action? Ask her out for a date taking place on any day between Sunday and Thursday evening. She won't view you as trying to get serious too soon, and you'll be able to limit how long the date is since you'll both have work in the morning (first dates shouldn't be longer than 2 hours - gotta leave 'em wanting more, ya know!).

Now, if you ask her out for a weekday and she's still giving you excuses, she's just not interested. But until you've taken her out a few times, steer clear of Fridays and Saturdays. Hope this helps!

 

[Mike32ct]

Bigneil has a preflake thread going. Definitely read that if you haven't already.

This "Can I confirm it?" BS is a good example of a preflake.

 

[pyros]

Hi.

this girl is ****ing psycho!

I finally replied to our last conversation with a face. So I did not say 'ok just let me know' neither I declined.

She just texted me back saying, pay attention please:
Her: I have a terrible headache, wanna tell me a good joke?
Me: have an aspirin.


wtf??¿