"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl says she's moving away in the summer

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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t510 said:
she seems really interested but says "i dont really want to move to ____ but it's better than not having a job"
how would you play this? I just ignored it, but obvs saying "i'm moving" is a good way to break things off with someone haha
Bang her before she moves if possible.

Then tell her to have a nice trip and go about your business. What else is there to "play"?
 

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these sorts of posts make me wonder why i even browse these boards.....
 
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