"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl says she won't have sex outside of a relationship - a date report

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So, this girl I go to school with (Indian girl, HB8, kinda thick but sexy as hell) and I went for a walk around Treasure Island in San Fran tonight, posted up under a tree and got to talking. I'd kissed her earlier today between classes and we decided to hang out later. It's going swimmingly, mind you.

So, we start making out and she starts grinding on me talking about the kama sutra and our favorite positions and all sorts of sh*t. So, I start kissing her neck and biting a bit which turns her right the fu*k on. And the topic goes to fu*king, but playfully. In a complete mood killer, she tells me she won't fu*k me unless we're a cemented couple.





which I don't really want. I just wanna fu*k her. maybe a couple times.

I'm trying to push on to different things to defuse the onset of onetis that seemed to be happening to me. So, apparently I'm barking up the wrong tree?

Any way to defuse this and get the lay? or have I lost this game already?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well, look at it this way perhaps it's her standards. If it is you should respect it. Maybe she's playing hard to get. You should try again, if she maintains the same position then maybe it's her standard, she wants guarantee you won't hit and run, if she's being a tease then you should walk away.
 
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indian eh....typically indian girls expect a proposal if you want to gain entry into the forbidden garden :)
 
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Next time it happens, go up to her.. look her in the eyes and say "I really like you and want you to be my girlfriend"

**** her

Break up with her soon afterwards. :)
 
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trickz said:
Next time it happens, go up to her.. look her in the eyes and say "I really like you and want you to be my girlfriend"

**** her

Break up with her soon afterwards. :)
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He goes to school with her. Hence she'll tell EVERYBODY if that happens and he gets a horrible reputation.

If you don't want her to be your GF, just say that unlike her, you're not interested in any long term thing just yet. be very straight forward and say something along the lines of "i really like you and all, but i'm not looking for anything long term right now. And if you aren't happy with that, then it's better if we just leave now as friends."

Then go and find another chick, bang the ****ing hell out of her, and when people ask her the next day why she's limping and she explains you gave her multiple crippling orgasms, Indian chick will realise what she missed, and might change her opinion.

on the reals though, sounds like quite teh tease, talking about ****ing and sexual stuff, making out and grinding, then comes out with that? i'd just stop paying so much attention to her and move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aragon034 said:
He goes to school with her. Hence she'll tell EVERYBODY if that happens and he gets a horrible reputation.

If you don't want her to be your GF, just say that unlike her, you're not interested in any long term thing just yet. be very straight forward and say something along the lines of "i really like you and all, but i'm not looking for anything long term right now. And if you aren't happy with that, then it's better if we just leave now as friends."

Then go and find another chick, bang the ****ing hell out of her, and when people ask her the next day why she's limping and she explains you gave her multiple crippling orgasms, Indian chick will realise what she missed, and might change her opinion.

on the reals though, sounds like quite teh tease, talking about ****ing and sexual stuff, making out and grinding, then comes out with that? i'd just stop paying so much attention to her and move on.
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Erm, if she does that he can just say he didn't **** her... he was going down on her and her bush was really smelly?
 
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