I told this girl I just want to be friends, but i think she is testing the waters. I asked her what she did last nite and she said she hung out wit her boyfriend. Still, she asked me if I had a girlfriend and called me cute multiple times. She also said she was cold on several occasions as if she was asking for a hug. Interpret?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
girl says she has bf but shows iois. help me decipher
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