"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girl says she has bf but shows iois. help me decipher

cguy2004

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I told this girl I just want to be friends, but i think she is testing the waters. I asked her what she did last nite and she said she hung out wit her boyfriend. Still, she asked me if I had a girlfriend and called me cute multiple times. She also said she was cold on several occasions as if she was asking for a hug. Interpret?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lexington

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The way you play this is you pretty much completely ignore her claim that she has a boyfriend and just keep escalating.

She may not even have a boyfriend, she may be looking for an upgrade or she might just be down to fvck. It's your job to find out.
 
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