Girl says she has a FIFTY DAY RULE!!!!

[nmartinez12443]

So I met this 26, hb7 at a bar. Face not so great but a KILLER body and I really like her personality. I probably don't want to marry this girl, but I'm cool with spinning other plates going out etc, and wait. Went on a couple dates real sexual at all times. Whats your take on this? I've heard that girls who put this criteria from the start aren't down to begin with. Anyone ever go through this?

 

[muscleman]

She said she won't put out for 50 dates? And what is 'real sexual at all times'?

PS. You posted this in the wrong forum. Either show your age so we can move it to Mature Man or don't so we can move it to DJ Discussion.

 

[nmartinez12443]

I'm 29, I thought i would get some tips on how to deal with this so I posted that hear. As far as real sexual, hands on outside of pants/my hand up her skirt rubbing on her ps.y

 

[nmartinez12443]

also

She said 50 DAYS

 

[JohnChops]

50 days?! I wouldnt waste 2 dates with her, clearly she is "inflexible" and isnt worth your time brotha. Id let her go ... for now and the maybe see how shes doing in a couple of months and see if her 50 day rule still stands. If its still there, forget her, she either actually has the rule or she has low interest level in you and wants you as an orbiter.

She wants you to work for her affection with some crazy rule too. Men do NOT work for a woman's affection, WOMEN work for a MANs attention.

I wouldnt even bother, if you want to stick with her then you obviously have no other options ....
Step 1 : get more options
Step 2 : Profit.
Step 3 : Ummm why is this here, see step 2

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

"OK, call me in 50 days babe"

 

[nmartinez12443]

Thanks for the advice. I do have options, but i want to bang this chick and to be honest I think she doesn't really have that rule, just a "slut shield". I won't be an orbiter, but I'll keep her around losely and keep banging around.

 

[Robert28]

ask yourself this, "has she made other guys follow this SAME rule her whole life?" I'm willing to bet not.

 

[backbreaker]

ask yourself this, "has she made other guys follow this SAME rule her whole life?" I'm willing to bet not.

see to me, that's not the right question that you need to ask. I mean it's a very valid question, but it's not a question that really gets to the meat of the problem.

The question that i woudl want to ask is, what does it say about a woman who thinks it's okay to make a man wait 50 days for sex?

there is only one unbiased answer; she procieves her ***** to have enough significance /be worth waiting 50 days for.


to me, the issue in this situation isn't that she isn't putting out, or even that she is putting out for some and not putting out for others. the issue to me is that, she has put a bounty on her *****; in other words, her ***** has a value higher than chemistry + attraction.

i dont' want to figure out how to get in her pants. WTF do i want to get in some prissy ass self grandstanding *****es pants for. she thinks she pisses gold literally. let some other dope figure out how to get in her pants or let some dude she is attracted to think he is hot **** beucase she gave it up for him, in the end both of them will lose and lose big. this ***** isn't about ****.

 

[Robert28]

see to me, that's not the right question that you need to ask. I mean it's a very valid question, but it's not a question that really gets to the meat of the problem.

The question that i woudl want to ask is, what does it say about a woman who thinks it's okay to make a man wait 50 days for sex?

there is only one unbiased answer; she procieves her ***** to have enough significance /be worth waiting 50 days for.


to me, the issue in this situation isn't that she isn't putting out, or even that she is putting out for some and not putting out for others. the issue to me is that, she has put a bounty on her *****; in other words, her ***** has a value higher than chemistry + attraction.

i dont' want to figure out how to get in her pants. WTF do i want to get in some prissy ass self grandstanding *****es pants for. she thinks she pisses gold literally. let some other dope figure out how to get in her pants or let some dude she is attracted to think he is hot **** beucase she gave it up for him, in the end both of them will lose and lose big. this ***** isn't about ****.

very true! I find it quite odd that she chose a random number such as 50 though. why not 30? 60? 21? hell, make 'em wait 7 years.lol what I can tell you from experience is the one's that do make you wait some pre-determined ammount of time, are NEVER worth the wait.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Acknowledge and ignore. When she says that, she actually means "because of past indiscretions (I'm too easy!) I really think I should have a 50 day rule. Let's try that with you and see how long I last."

 

[muscleman]

What is YOUR frame? What is YOUR set of rules? If it's 3 dates, it's 3 dates.

Personally, if she's an 8+ I will give it 3 dates. 7-8, 2 dates. Below 7 if she doesn't put out right away I don't bother. Eliminating all sub-7s now actually.

You see, every successful relationship starts with intimacy. The longest relationship I've had (1.5 years, almost engaged, lived with her) began as wild monkey marathon sex for months of 0 commitment, on the first night. We were up all night, and all the next day. I still remember it fondly. It was only later that feelings developed and we decided to become exclusive. I broke it off because I wasn't ready for the next step, but it has nothing to do with 'waiting'.