decoding women speak. whenever a girl says "i dont want to" or "i dont like to" or something of that nature "I dont want to go out tonight", " i dont like to go to movies", "i dont like to talk on the phone", etc, always add the words "with you" at the end when you are in confusion as to why. You can literally add "with you" to the end of any sentence like this and it will be totally clear as to whats going on.