Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl Said She Likes Me... She Was Drunk

foomee

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So this is the third time I've hooked up with this girl drunk and she tells me she likes me. She is still a virgin and all I've done is finger her and we've made out naked and what not and I pretty much make her feel really good that night when I fingered her and each time it'd go good she'd make me stop and go down on me. She said I'm the only other guy she's gone down on other than her ex boyfriend. So I'm wondering... does she actually like me or is it the alcohol talking? Most of the time the alcohol brings the truth out, but I dunno for sure. I've had my experience with girls before, but none have said that so soon. She's been known to get around, just make out with a bunch of guys, but no sex. So I'm wondering maybe it's the fact that she's a virgin or what not. I need a second opinion though. This sounds so high school, but yeah, help me out. Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kev07

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Shes giving you head and you're wondering if she likes you or not?

What else are you looking for? for her to accidentally slide her vag down your shaft?

And who cares if she actually likes you or not, only thing that matters is if you like her or not. She hasn't said she doesnt like you, so get the ball rollin'
 

mintxx

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wow if you think it's just the alcohol talking after she's made her intentions that clear.. she must have been way fukkin drunk man!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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"Like" doesn't really mean much, it's a lot like "nice." Think about it, how many drunken girls will go down on you even without saying that they like you? I wouldn't read into that and just focus on her actions for now.
 
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