"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl Remembers Everything-sign Of High Il?

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I have been dating this girl who seems like the shy reserve type. Therefore it has been hard gauging her IL.

For those who know my posts, I am a big fan of Anti-Dump who stresses the need to determine a girls IL before expending valuable time and energy on her.

The one positive is she always seems to remember the slightest and minute details of our conversations, i,e what I said, comments I have made, etc. Things I dont even remember. And she even remembered the names of my brothers and sister even though I only casually mentioned them maybe once or twice.

Either this girl is trying to show off her keen memory and attention to detail or she has thought about me so much that these things are ingrained in her head. The latter would surely be a sign of high IL because why would you even bother to analyze what was said in a conversation and remember it if you were not interested in that person? I know I wouldn't.

Any thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is a good sign but this alone does not mean that she has a high interest level. There are other signs that show a girls interest level.


1. Never flakes.
2. Never turns you down for sex.
3. Would rather be with you than her friends.
4. Is always available and returns your phone calls quickly.
5. Initiates kino.
6. Is happy to be with you no matter what you guys do.
7. Initiates sex.

If your girl passes on all these 7 points than she a High IL.
 
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It could be that there's high interest for you.

However, I can remember conversations I had with people down to the littlest detail... and not just with girls I was interested in but all conversations. For me its something thats really hard to shutoff. Maybe this girl is the same way.

But, if there's other indicators that she's into you then this could be a strong positive.
 
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Either she is interested in you or she's an artist. Artists tend to be very tuned in to details. My 21 year old daughter is an extremely talented artist and she hones in on things like that.
 
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