"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She called me ****y and asked me if I had something to prove. I was kinda ****y, I should definitely tone that down a bit. she found out about how many girls ive been with in the past like month and called me a man slut too :woo: I told her i didn't have anything to prove and im not really a ****y *******

but she kept asking me about these girls ive been with... I tried to sorta avoid it but she kept on about it. like if we're still together etc. I don't know if this is good or bad. This girl is tricky, she's b*tchy, and is like the smartest and sharpest one ever. she's pretty ****y herself

So what should one do if an interested girl asks about other girls. I'm definitely single at the moment and not hooking up with anyone... Should you try to avoid it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This is a tough call Eko...But I think she might be a little curious in a jealous manner. Why else would she care about how many girls you were with if she was not interested? You are doing a good job keeping your options open though and don't get attached to one girl like I currently have.

Yeah, once you know you are overdoing the ****y, tone it down a little. To be on the safe side, I tend to be a little more funnier than ****y so show I have a more humor and fun side to me.

Good luck + let me know whats happenin
 
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yea i was wondering the same thing....i chilled with a girl last night and she kept asking me about something she heard at school with some other girls.
 
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tell her you were taking them out on a test drive, not in a literal sense, but something along the lines of seeing if they were worth the time.
 
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clix said:
tell her you were taking them out on a test drive, not in a literal sense, but something along the lines of seeing if they were worth the time.
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thats kinda what i implied.... i told her i like to keep my options open unless someone worthwhile comes along.

But i just don't wanna come off as needy... anything but needy. Cause this is the girl I asked a few times to hang out and said no, now all the sudden she wants to. Girls seriously have some like super powers to read people's minds, they are so keen and sharp. Really annoying
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You let her pass judgement on you, and took it like a little b1tch. You qualified yourself to her and let her bone you in the azz with her proverbial penis.

You failed.

A better response to her "tests":

her: "you're such a man slut/*****" [passing judgement, testing, baiting]

you: "Pfff...says the kettle to the teapot"

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her: "You're so ****y" [passing judgement, testing, baiting, whatever]

you: "damn straight, b1tch!"
or
you: "what was that...oh, you want...c0ck?" and make as if to unzip your pants.

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She was testing to see if there was actually a true person behind all your smoke and mirrors. By accepting her judgement and accepting(right away i might add) that she was correct in her judgement, you let her walk all over you.

You blew it, my friend.

next.
 
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You let her pass judgement on you, and took it like a little b1tch. You qualified yourself to her and let her bone you in the azz with her proverbial penis.

You failed.

A better response to her "tests":

her: "you're such a man slut/*****" [passing judgement, testing, baiting]

you: "Pfff...says the kettle to the teapot"

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her: "You're so ****y" [passing judgement, testing, baiting, whatever]

you: "damn straight, b1tch!"
or
you: "what was that...oh, you want...c0ck?" and make as if to unzip your pants.

-------

She was testing to see if there was actually a true person behind all your smoke and mirrors. By accepting her judgement and accepting(right away i might add) that she was correct in her judgement, you let her walk all over you.

You blew it, my friend.

next.
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yeah she did walk all over me in that. that was like the only time i slipped though. i was just tired of playing games with her. I'm telling you this is one tough b*tch though. Oh well... next. shes probably not worth the effort
 
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