"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She called me ****y and asked me if I had something to prove. I was kinda ****y, I should definitely tone that down a bit. she found out about how many girls ive been with in the past like month and called me a man slut too :woo: I told her i didn't have anything to prove and im not really a ****y *******

but she kept asking me about these girls ive been with... I tried to sorta avoid it but she kept on about it. like if we're still together etc. I don't know if this is good or bad. This girl is tricky, she's b*tchy, and is like the smartest and sharpest one ever. she's pretty ****y herself

So what should one do if an interested girl asks about other girls. I'm definitely single at the moment and not hooking up with anyone... Should you try to avoid it?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This is a tough call Eko...But I think she might be a little curious in a jealous manner. Why else would she care about how many girls you were with if she was not interested? You are doing a good job keeping your options open though and don't get attached to one girl like I currently have.

Yeah, once you know you are overdoing the ****y, tone it down a little. To be on the safe side, I tend to be a little more funnier than ****y so show I have a more humor and fun side to me.

Good luck + let me know whats happenin
 

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yea i was wondering the same thing....i chilled with a girl last night and she kept asking me about something she heard at school with some other girls.
 

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tell her you were taking them out on a test drive, not in a literal sense, but something along the lines of seeing if they were worth the time.
 

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clix said:
tell her you were taking them out on a test drive, not in a literal sense, but something along the lines of seeing if they were worth the time.
thats kinda what i implied.... i told her i like to keep my options open unless someone worthwhile comes along.

But i just don't wanna come off as needy... anything but needy. Cause this is the girl I asked a few times to hang out and said no, now all the sudden she wants to. Girls seriously have some like super powers to read people's minds, they are so keen and sharp. Really annoying
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You let her pass judgement on you, and took it like a little b1tch. You qualified yourself to her and let her bone you in the azz with her proverbial penis.

You failed.

A better response to her "tests":

her: "you're such a man slut/*****" [passing judgement, testing, baiting]

you: "Pfff...says the kettle to the teapot"

-------

her: "You're so ****y" [passing judgement, testing, baiting, whatever]

you: "damn straight, b1tch!"
or
you: "what was that...oh, you want...c0ck?" and make as if to unzip your pants.

-------

She was testing to see if there was actually a true person behind all your smoke and mirrors. By accepting her judgement and accepting(right away i might add) that she was correct in her judgement, you let her walk all over you.

You blew it, my friend.

next.
 

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BluEyes said:
You let her pass judgement on you, and took it like a little b1tch. You qualified yourself to her and let her bone you in the azz with her proverbial penis.

You failed.

A better response to her "tests":

her: "you're such a man slut/*****" [passing judgement, testing, baiting]

you: "Pfff...says the kettle to the teapot"

-------

her: "You're so ****y" [passing judgement, testing, baiting, whatever]

you: "damn straight, b1tch!"
or
you: "what was that...oh, you want...c0ck?" and make as if to unzip your pants.

-------

She was testing to see if there was actually a true person behind all your smoke and mirrors. By accepting her judgement and accepting(right away i might add) that she was correct in her judgement, you let her walk all over you.

You blew it, my friend.

next.
yeah she did walk all over me in that. that was like the only time i slipped though. i was just tired of playing games with her. I'm telling you this is one tough b*tch though. Oh well... next. shes probably not worth the effort
 
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