girl reaching out to you after vanishing

[pyros]

So lets say you've been on a couple of dates with this chick, and it went very good but no sex because of logistics. Anyway, after two or three dates you ask her out again and this time she does a 180º change. She doesnt seem enthusiastic about it, she gives you one word answers...and she seems busy, you suspect there is another guy in the pic, so you go NC.

Then after a week or so she contacts you again. How do you react? do you behave as if nothing had happened? or do you make her work a bit to get your attention again?

 

[GS750]

My suspicion would be that she is looking for attention or weighing her options. But...things aren't always black and white. I'd be friendly but not overly enthusiastic about hearing from her, maybe see if she chases a bit and tries to stay on your radar. After being in contact a couple of times then go for the meet. If she pulls the same wishy washy BS as before, delete the digits.

 

[:-)]

you invite her over 'to watch a movie'.

 

[usernamedox11]

two options

1) invite her to come over for dinner and a movie

2) ignore her until she reaches out a second time

 

[Infern0]

"Netflix and chill?"

Any response other than yes, delete the number.