Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That's kind of what I was leaning towards. This girl is bad and does get a lot of attention from other guys, which really doesn't bother me, so most likely she's been dating someone else and for whatever reason it didn't work out for her. That or just an attention ***** and likes to keep tons of dudes in orbit.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
None of those details are relevant. There are only two relevant behaviors:
Lets me use my experience as a way of playing devils advocate: very similar situation, I friendzoned her after she would not commit to doing anything. After going out and getting drinks and going back to her place multiple times, she would remind me we're just friends. She pushed me away any time I tried to make a move and it just became a game playing waste of time. At the end I didnt get laid and her and I stopped talking. Waste of time to try and play these stupid games.
Yup. Even if you/he did play some game with her and get sex out of it by friendzoning her and that bothering her hamster enough to have sex with him later, I say that's not worth contemplating compared to the much bigger risk of wasting a lot of time and energy just for a theoretical, small chance of some pvssy, which may even be unrewarding anyway: dull sex, bad hygiene, risks of stds and pregnancy scares unless you fvck with a condom that takes away the enjoyment anyway.
It's freaky how identical our situations are. The chick who was pulling this **** with me had a boyfriend who were on and off. I wouldn't be surprised if that's what's going on with yours. My suggestion would be to not friendzone her and just tell her straight up you're not looking for a friendship.
This is a good point. Some vagina is actually not worth it. I've been there.
I have no idea, what I do know, which I have mentioned on here, is that she gets lots of attention from other men. I'm pretty sure she is sleeping with and seeing other guys. Now that I think about it, it kind of makes sense. Girls don't ask guys out if there isn't any interest on her part, the flaking was probably her going out on a date with someone she's known longer or already been seeing. Her re initiating is to show that she is still interested to some degree.
Def sounds like you know the deal. Just don't do what I did and continue to push for something. I'd recommend going no contact while chasing other chicks. She'll prob hit you up to re-engage your interest and when she does you have to strike hard, as in asking her to come to your place to chill. Get to the point.
We met at the gym so I just talk to her when I see her there, I'm not texting or calling her. I don't use social media so there is no interaction between us through that either, so it's entirely face to face conversations.
This is not a viable strategy. This guy has had zero success with this girl even going on a date so pressuring her for sex immediately is going to bomb big time.
Your level of emotional involvement (deep jealousy) is counter productive and a waste of time. You are in way too deep emotionally. Take a break from thinking about this girl. By the end of the week, do this:
