"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BongDuy

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Does this mean she is interested? Is she testing you? Lately, the girls i have been talking to have asked me about my past relationships and i always give them vague answers to keep them guessing. This girl also questions what type of characteristics i like in a woman and i replied " Idk i dont make a list"

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJDanny

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yeah it's a test, be vague and bust her ass for being so insecure.
 

Warrior74

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHxIssSROjk

lol. Seriously. your on the right track. parcel out information in small doses. The same dating rules for men and women apply when it comes to asking about past relationships and characteristics, don't ask.

She's an afc for asking, maybe naive. But it does mean she likes you and can't figure you out, so you have her interest. Speak no more than half as much as she does...let her talk about her, find out about her life and decide if you want her or not...let her qualify her self to you now. Balls in your court bro. Good luck.
 

horaholic

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You always tell them about the models you've dated and so-forth. I've made girls interested by telling them how hot my last GF was. It works, for some reason. Other than that, be vague, but tell them anything to make them think, you've done well. Tell her about the girls who would do ANYTHING sexually, and so forth. Tell girls anything that will raise your value.
 
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