"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl pursuing me. Not sure what to do with her.

scudge

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Basically it's been a bit over a month since I've gotten laid and I've been hanging out with this girl and her friends every once in a while. She's decent looking, great personality and basically just told me she wants to fvck sometime this week... I'm just not all that attracted to her. I'd much rather fvck her cuter friend.

Would you recommend fvcking her to get out of this dry spell? or LJBF her and pursue some new girls instead?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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old_skoolr

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just f.uck her dude, you need the lay
 

Pardner

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why do you have to ask us that? just do it to blow a load.
 

Born_Again

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Rock her world and i guaranty she will tell her cute friend that you're interested in.
 

Mike32ct

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Do it. But don't half arse it. Make her scream your name. Then her friend will be MORE interested in you because:

1. They can't keep a secret. She WILL tell her friend.

2. Although they would never admit it, a lot of women LOVE sloppy seconds. They are REALLY F-ed up and twisted that way. (Men don't think like that. We don't automatically want a chick more because our buddy bhanged her lol.)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RagingBalls

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Mike32ct said:
Do it. But don't half arse it. Make her scream your name. Then her friend will be MORE interested in you because:

1. They can't keep a secret. She WILL tell her friend.

2. Although they would never admit it, a lot of women LOVE sloppy seconds. They are REALLY F-ed up and twisted that way. (Men don't think like that. We don't automatically want a chick more because our buddy bhanged her lol.)
Good one. It would also be a nice idea if the OP would try doing the "duck-fvck" on her, biting her nape as he doggy her as she quacks from pure lust. Then, when the girl of his interest hears about it, she would also want the OP to try that one on her too...maybe granny goose would hear about it too and ask him about it too and spread the news on the whole town faster than wildfire. It would be the biggest news eversince Gonzo the anal Berserk went apeshlt. LOL :up:
 
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