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This situ surprised me as PUA THEORY says this one's in the bag!

I was out this weekend and came across some wacky event called "expressive dancing" or something to that effect. Most of the women were older but not bad looking. I checked out the scene for a few before going on my way.

A super cute gal but very reserved is walking by and checking me out furtively with a glance over her shoulder. She stops and stand directly next to me, shoulder to shoulder.

Pfft, easy. I check her out and chat her up. I ask if she's interested in this type of dancing. She frowns and shakes her head, says nothing. I say I'm not either but stopped because I know some of the people here (more or less true). She says nothing and walks off with zero acknowledgement!

Clearly, a super shy girl, acting out of instinct, not really knowing what to do. So yeah, PUA theory tells us proximity approaches are a sure sign of interest. Mmmmm, no. There's no such thing as a sure thing with women! Pickup is all about volume, even if you are high on the SMV scale.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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No ****.

It doesn't mean you get porn star sex. It means potential interest. IOIs don't guarantee a pull. Likely interest level is above 51%. That's it. If sperg or retarded or watching 6 day long rants on hypergamy or any other ****ery, etc equates to not getting any play.

This is simply pulling or you next. it's not rocket science. furthermore the quality today is dumpster fire. the quality wasn't great before but better when pua was putting out the content in early 2000s. Clarey was talking about the hotter girls today couldn't compete with the 6s in his generation. it's rubbish today.

Your biggest flaw is your not acknowledged your approach is on modern women. ran through *** dumpsters. liberal arts and feminist major and minor in false rapey accusations.
 

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You may had the bait but not the hook.
Your response was generic and something that is probably said to her several times.

“Having fun?”
“No”
“Then let’s get out of here”
Something to that effect.

Perhaps she’ll still blow you off, but you have to be creative and different from the crowd - not a carbon copy.
 

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Come to think of it, there were a couple of semi-cute "latinas" who walked up and started videoing but I was standing right in front of them. So they weren't actually videoing the dancing, they were recording me. I just stepped out of frame since I hate being recorded in public.

Women are finding it more and more difficult to socialize normally after a couple of years of weirdness.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Come to think of it, there were a couple of semi-cute "latinas" who walked up and started videoing but I was standing right in front of them. So they weren't actually videoing the dancing, they were recording me. I just stepped out of frame since I hate being recorded in public.

Women are finding it more and more difficult to socialize normally after a couple of years of weirdness.
They were already weird. Likely crazy spectrum. It's just more apparent.
 

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getting laid is a volume game , just like finding a new job

it is mainly about timing , logistics and your fundamentals ( perceived SMV )

the rest are still important , but irrelevant if you do not have this 3 in place
 
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