girl proposes monogamy; you want to date others - how do you tell her?

[strong like bull]

as always, short and to the point:

ive been dating 6'1" 17 yr old german exchange student for 1-2 months. things are progressingly nicely. well, evidently, because the other night she made the proposal. she asked if we were together. went further to specify it meaning monogamy, just her and i. no one else.

it was great; just like the wise DJs said, make her IL skyrocket, play it cool and eventually she will ask you for monogamy. i did like they said; i never hinted at it. she came to me for it.

and yeah, thats all wonderful. but if im not interested in an LTR right now, how do i let her know? id like to keep seeing her, as well as others, until i find the best girl for me. im not trying to use her for sex or etc. i just dont want to settle for less.

how do i tell her, without coming off like a game-playing prick?

thanks in advance.

 

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by strong like bull
as always, short and to the point:

ive been dating 6'1"

What the ƒuck? I like my women tall (5'10 = perfect height) but over 6 is ƒucked up, that cutting into my height margin. I'm 6'2, I need at least 2.5" between us.

 

[quest]

whens she going back to germany? perhaps you could use that to keep things casual. just say something like "i really like you, but i don't want to become further attached to you because you are leaving soon"

however, i'm no pro dj. i'm able to pick up. and see the girl for a while.. but when it comes to actually playing the game further, i've got little experience.

 

[strong like bull]

MVPlaya:

i definately know what you mean. im 6'4" and her height intrigues me, to say the least.

even at my height, i love short, petite girls. 5'5" and under.. yum. theyre like bite-size candies to us tall guys. bwahahaha



quest:

thats actually a very good idea. shes a sweet-heart, but i can already see that she wouldnt do it for me in the long run. little things, like the fact that she doesnt cook - at all. or how she barely eats. while i appreciate a girl who wont cost me a $200 food bill, i LOVE to eat, and im looking for someone who will indulge.

 

[MadTyteYo!]

im a short 6'2 and i my perfect height is ne where from 5'7-5'10.

ne ways why dont u just keep on seeing her and whatever happens, happens. like dont go out of your way to mess around with any girl that is less than an HB 8.5