"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl Problem Pt. 3: The Saga Continues

CoRVeTTe6699

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Recap:

1 month ago-

called girl / asked to chill on weekend / she said ok but to call her on weekend / called her ... told me to call back / called back / she made an excuse/

last friday-

called same girl / asked to chill on weekend / she said ok but to call her in morning so she can see what time she can go out / i didnt call / later that night she imed me and asked why i didnt call/

tonight-

shes not responding to me on MSN



--what the fvck do i do know... yeah i know.. i should forget her--- BUT i didnt want it to end like this...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oakraiderz2

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Wait a while, then call her and ask her what shes doin that night...after that say youre gonna try to find something to do and youll call her back...then dont call her.
 

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You didn't learn anything from my last post.
 

CoRVeTTe6699

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your right i shouldnt have posted this...i was just upset a few minutes ago... how can i delete this post
 

Porky

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Don't talk to her online.

A lot of people will say you shouldn't talk to a girl on IM because it doesn't afford any opportunities for kino. A lot of people should say you should talk to a girl online because it allows you a safe environment to show her your funny side. I agree with the former. Not talking to girls you want to get with online keeps her out of your mind, so you don't just sit there at the computer waiting for her to respond or IM you. That's sad, and a waste of time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ask her if she meet you some where thaen talk amd see if she likes you or if she hates you but if she does hate you it's probably because you didin't call her back that's what happend to me.
 
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