"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl plays me for a fool and I deserved the lesson

Dante420

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picked her up, basically she grabbed my liquor and bounced and I knew this was happening and I was like "yo give me that back, we ain't even hanging out" as I was driving her home...

played for a fool. I shoulda never given her a chance back in my life so fast....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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as long as you got the liquor back, you're good. take it as a lesson
 

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HolyG said:
as long as you got the liquor back, you're good. take it as a lesson
She didn't give me it back. I was like "give me that, do I look like a delivery bartender?" and she was like "ohh when we get to my house I'll smoke you up"...we got to her house she smiled in my face and said "it was really fun chilling with you" and I sarcastically responded "ya we needa do it again sometime" and left....couldn't of pictured this being any worse.
 

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Dante420 said:
picked her up, basically she grabbed my liquor and bounced and I knew this was happening and I was like "yo give me that back, we ain't even hanging out" as I was driving her home...

played for a fool. I shoulda never given her a chance back in my life so fast....
Remember the oldie but a goodie saying...."girl before liquor.....never sicker".
 

HolyG

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Dante420 said:
She didn't give me it back. I was like "give me that, do I look like a delivery bartender?" and she was like "ohh when we get to my house I'll smoke you up"...we got to her house she smiled in my face and said "it was really fun chilling with you" and I sarcastically responded "ya we needa do it again sometime" and left....couldn't of pictured this being any worse.

It's better to show anger and be thought of as a ****....than to thought of as being too nice.

I get along well with everyone. except when I don't.

People disrespect me, they laugh unconcernedly until I get up in their faces and straighten them out. Don't be afraid to put people in their place.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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