“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jbrunner_ipa

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Ok, there's this pretty cool chic who lives around me that i've been chatting with online. And she's felt the need to play those stupid games they like to pull like randomly leaving for a second and then coming back when i say something ****y. I told her that it was a little unneccessary to play games at this point and she asked "why's that" and i said "ok, well, i do need to go study then. I'll talk to you later"
this is fine and dandy but what do i do if she keeps this up next time i talk to her. Just next her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Big Pappy

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This is easy. Don't chat online. Take her out and chat.
 

jbrunner_ipa

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i know i know. I feel sucky. She hinted that she wanted me to call her and i didn't really jump on the boat. I thought about it but i didnt' think it was time. I'm pretty sure her IL is up so i'll just give her a ring sometime this week.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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If her IL is high enough by the third time you've chatted online, you should be talking with her face to face. Otherwise, let her find another playmate.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm getting sick of this.
"I talked to a girl and she paused for a few seconds, what does this mean?"

It means you need to harden the ƒuck up and go do some DJing!
 

MVPlaya

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Originally posted by Walden
I'm getting sick of this.
"I talked to a girl and she paused for a few seconds, what does this mean?"

It means you need to harden the ƒuck up and go do some DJing!
I am so proud, my ƒ is promulgated on the SoSuave board.

*sighs*

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Besides, seriously, homie. Who cares? Just do whatever the ƒuck you want, its an online chat, why give a sh!t. Just have fun, do stupid stuff online. Don't take it serious, online stuff rarely leads to anything. Just kick back and relax.
 

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Yoiu can't tell emotions online. She could've gone to take a pee or something.

Christ, this is why IM should be left to 14-year-old girls. You cant express emotions (and those stupid emoticons are sh*t).
 

Paid Laid & Made

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Yeah, do not keep on letting her lead you around like that. She might be playing games or you might be reading things into what she does. Just stay cool and relaxed and try for some 1 on 1 time face to face.
 

Donjuanpablo

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Sounds like you're playing just as many games if you're pulling "****y" lines.
 

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I thought you were talkin' about java games at first..
 
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