"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girl pestering me to visit her.

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Alright, no one probably remembers my post a couple of weeks ago, but anyways, I've gone out with this girl while she was home for two weeks probably 4 or 5 times...., had a lot of fun (blah blah blah - no sex), but anyways. The last probably 3 times i have talked to her she questioned me everytime on when am i coming down (more like over), but anyways. The last time i talked to her i was questioned yet again, and something of the sort, 'well you let me know when would be fine and i'll check my calendar and get back to you;'

long story short, she said any of the next couple weekends would be good (she went back to school yesterday). AND i know the big rule that you shouldn't look desperate....as i haven't, i hardley ever call her and she is always instantiating conversations with me, but would i look desperate if i said next weekend?, as she is the one constantly asking me. BTW i should mention that i have had a crush on this girl since auqust and told her last month how i felt after she broke up with bf. (i know, we're not supposed to tell our emotions). any insight would be fantastic. i should mention though that the last couple days she was home she had a bunch of other stuff to do and i didn't get a chance to really say goodbye to her. anyways. let me know fellas.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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just go for it. If she knows use other DJ stuff to mix her up. But if you back off she might think your chicken ****.
 
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Go dude...

BTW: You might wanna give her a call or two, cause she's gonna think you're not intrested at all.

Don't overdo it.
 
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alright, weird stuff going on. i told her i would come down this weekend and thought she got the point, then she calls me 'when are you gonna come down?' told her this or next and made up some b.s. about i have to go visit another friend one of those weekends. (i wanted to see her this weekend) so i says it's up to you, but it's better for my friend if i see him next weekend and u this weekend.

She im's me later,' Hey! Next weekend would actually work better for me, but I know that's when you are supposed to see your friend...so just IM me or give me a call and we can talk more about it if you want. :) Hope you're having a great night!'

Do i somehow have my friend change his mind??? cause i don't want to look desperate.

Man i really need to get off of this one-itis thing and ask out health store girl.

Any thoughts would greatly be appreciated.
 
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Fvck "I don't want to look desperate" mindset.

If she called you 5 times to come visit her, you're not desperate. Start worrying about appearing disintrested.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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so should i just say screw it, my friend changed plans, i can go the weekend you suggested?
 
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That you should've done from the beginning.

Now... just tell it didn't work out with the friend and you'll visit him some other time. And you're coming there for the weekend...

Good luck
 
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