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Girl Personalities and Type of Underwear question

romanticpoet

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Kind of an odd question, but is there a correlation between a girl's personality and the type of underwear? for example thong, gstring, etc.

Question has been bugging me for awhile.. is there some sort of general pattern to the girl (like being sexual) or is it really no real similarities.

Thanks for the responses.
 

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LostAndConfused

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There is no possible way to correlate the two.

One girlfriend of mine wore thongs everyday and was VERY reserved sexually.

This one girl I dated on and off never wore them at first before I left her then when I came back to her she was wearing them even though she saw no guys in between.

A few girls actually wear them because they are comfortable (at least they tell me that I don't know how much I believe it).

Some wear them to try to impress guys.

Some wear them because they are slvts.

Generally, the more expensive / more sexy the underwear the more she's trying to impress guys.....But really, you can't tell. But as long as the girl shops at Victoria's Secret I'm down with her.
 

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In past times there would have been more of a correlation. Now you can't tell.

Interestingly, most of the women I ever had encounters with were wearing nothing more than the normal bikkini styled underwear. There was an instance where it was a 'frilly' and very elegant bikkini style. Another instance had a see thru thong on. The rest were run-of-the-mill.
 

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There's no connection at all. I dated a girl who wore tiny see-through underwear and I was only her second guy at age 22. I knew another girl who'd slept with 20+ guys who wore big cotton 'granny panties' all the time.
 

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If you see them wearing a thong intentionally past the waistline of their pants... I'd go on a limb and say they are seeking attention from the opposite sex. But in general you can't judge a woman by her underwear. My GF will wear a thong if she thinks I'm going to see her underwear that day... other days if we're going to be out and about she'll probably wear regular panties. She claims thongs are quite comfortable though... something about not having to pull a wedgie out of your ass because it's already in there.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

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She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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slaog

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My GF doesn't like thongs. She wears normal style but in different colours and usually theres some cute writing or pictures on them.


San Jose California said:
Thongs = sluts. I know posts after me will be telling me I'm wrong. You guys don't know anything.

Thats the impression I have too. I don't know if its due to the lack of comfort or something else.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Girls wear panties. Ho's wear strings. Some wear nothing but their all the same.
 
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